Sex related

[Niharikaaa]

Can anyone say me...how and wen to take the contraceptive pills????

[Clysta]

No there isn't. Even women who are trying to get pregnant still have a waiting period where they can't do anything but wait and see how things play out. Worry won't change the outcome though, and you'll make yourself sick if you keep freaking out about it. If it's meant for you to be pregnant, you will. If it's not, you won't. Try to relax until you have a reason to worry. What's done is done, and now you just need to move on.

[Niharikaaa]

i agree 2 u....u said the same thing wich once ma doctor said....dat due to stress my periods get abnormal....still den dis fear z simply taking cntrol ovr me....is der nythng dat i cn check out @ dis stage?????

[Clysta]

There doesn't have to be anything wrong for your periods to be late. They can just skip for no reason at all. Other reasons would be stress (which you definitely have done to yourself) medicines, changes in diet, rapid weight gain/loss, etc.

[Niharikaaa]

M extremly sry 4 dis,.....my ignorance led 2 all dis...m nt gettng d reason of my lateness of periods..is it my hormonal imbalance or some  prblm  may hv cropped up....m quite nervous.previously evn many a times my periods hv skipped 30 to 35 days....evn m suffering 4m the usual symptoms dat i go thru just b4 hvng mah periods,,,,,on the othr side m busy with my college xamz....m screwd up....m taking medicines for periods but still inside m utterly nervous and depresed ....pls smbody help me out....!!!!!

[Clysta]

If you can't get pregnant why are you having sex? Sex is NOT meant for pleasure and to feel good. It might, but that's not it's purpose. It's a reproductive act, hence why the penis and vagina are called reproductive organs. When you make the choose to have sex, you also need to accept that this can happen (especially if it's unprotected) and should take full responsibility for those actions. It's part of being an adult and growing up. Now, I fully understand what it's like where you live, but suicide won't help or change anything beyond the fact that your problems seem solved. In reality, suicide solves nothing. I contemplated it for years and am still struggling with it sometimes, but I learned how selfish it was for me to think about it. You hurt everyone around you, not only yourself. (mine was for far different reasons that yours though--I grew up in a very abusive household and couldn't stand the pain or fear anymore) Now, you can't change what's done. You can only move on from here. Worrying yourself to death isn't going to undo anything, and if pregnancy is going to happen, it'll happen regardless of how much you fret about it. Don't worry until you have a reason to. For now, take this as a learning lesson and STOP having sex. You clearly don't want children, so wait until you're in a situation where that won't be a problem.

[Niharikaaa]

The problm is i cant go to a doctor here.....for such things.....yes ayurvedic and homeopathy are 2 ancient and alternative form of medicines apart 4m antibiotics that *** under allopathy.Now just yestrnight i had immense back pain and pain in abdominal part ,even i had pain in my legs....and yes m taking medicines of both ayurvedic and homeopathy for regular periods.
Generally i undergo such type of back pain wen my periods are approaching....but as per ur replies m nervous as wot may be happening inside me....m in panic if at all i get pregnant...even i cnt tek dis....m sry...but if at all this s d case m going 2 commit suicide....pls help...i cnt disclose it 2 anyone....and m helpless...pls help....