so scared :(

[andie102]

i really just need some one to lighten up my day, ive had it in my head a few months now that i wouldnt be able to have a baby, last year i had abortion, i really regert doing it as i was pushed into it and had no one to turn too, since then me and my fiancé have been ttc ever since but nuffin has worked we even, stopped trying and just thought bout making love but i still have fell pregnant, im so scared to go to the doctors as im young and i think they will think of me as funny, but i think bout having a baby more then any one else but im scared i cant get pregnant any more, any help ? if you need dates happy to tell x

[MarieesMommy]

Like prettyfacetee said it's just your mind because I lost my 1st baby last year a 5 1/2 months and started trying right away for another baby and after it not happening as soon as I wanted to I just stopped trying and a couple months later i end up pregnant now 18weeks.

[beautifulmum]

Well congrats to you on your  new pregnancy, i just went through miscarriage and hoping to concieve again as i just had to deliver my only son still born and i want to be pregnant more then anything

[prettyfacetee]

That has happened to me. Im 17 & me and my boyfriend ALWAYS had unprotected sex & im like, why am i not getting pregnant??? not that i was ttc but it just felt a little awkward so i been "trying" to get pregnant. last month, i havent even thought i'd be pregnant because last month we didnt have sex as much and there were no signs and i just stopped thinking abut it completely. so now im 5 weeks preggo! its just your mind playing with you. once you stop thinking about it, it'll happen when you least expect it! goodluck.

[adrainsmommy]

You shouldn't worry about being judged at the doctor, I was fourteen when I was pregnant and everyone treated my extremely well. The nurses and Ob's should only want to help you, and make you fell less insecure. They were supportive and gave me the things they are allowed to give, such as formula samples and whatnot. Even when I went to be induced and had my c-section they were very caring. You need to atleast take a home pregnancy test and go from there. I understand the feeling of wanting to become pregnant to the point where your mind makes you think you are. To wrap this up, there is nothing to fear, just do what you have to, take a test, see a doctor, and just be prepared for any answer... good luck!