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Possibly pregnant.. I'm 14

Don't judge.
2 weeks ago I had unprotected sex.
3 days ago, I started getting slight bleeding and cramps.
Yesterday I had 3 mental breakdowns out of no where where I was litterally laughing and crying at the same time for no apparent reason
Today headaches kicked in and I got extremely dizzy during work...
I have had these problems before and I wasn't pregnant, but my boyfriend didnt *** in me that time
But this time he's positive he did.
I don't know what to Do^^ because all the research I have done, says not to take a test till the first 4 weeks has past so that your hCG levels can rise or something, but the problem is the research I have done,  says that you can only get abortion up to 4 weeks after conceived is that  
True?
Any advice for my situation is greatly appreciated...
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I took it after school.
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When did you take the tests? It's best to take them first thing in the morning, as that is when your urine is the most concentrated. There are a number of reasons for why you haven't gotten your period, such as stress or hormonal issues, along with pregnancy. I would make a doctor's appointment to get checked out. They can do a blood test and you will know for sure what is going on..
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1194973 tn?1385503904
There could be many reasons. Have you seen the doctor? Because you're still very young your body is working to regulate your cycle. It's not uncommon for girls your age to miss months on end, even if they're normally regular.
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So I took two tests and they were both negative but I'm cramping again and I still haven't gotten my period.any ideas ?:/
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Thank you guys so much for your input , you have been a great help
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1470528 tn?1324694321
i completely agree too cysta... you are too young dear.. u will actually need some adult by your side.. be very careful with your body dear... if not your parents though they are the best people you can resort to even in the deepest troubles, at least have someone experienced by your side.. and don't do this.. adoption is fine but it's your body that suffers.... take proper care and then only take a step ahead.. and next time don't ever go for unprotected sex... god bless u...
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Abortion is NOT your only choice. Because of your age I believe you need an adult present no matter what anyways. If you're not ready for pregnancy, why are you having unprotected sex? I also can't imagine it would please them if they ever learned you aborted your child and their grandchild without speaking to them as well. A pregnancy test can accurately detect pregnancy two weeks after you last had sex. Abortion 'technically' can be done at anytime in a pregnancy, even third trimester, though it might be illegal beyond 22 or 24 weeks. I can't remember. If you're old enough to be having sex and unprotected sex at that, you're old enough to deal with those consequences. Speak to your parents. You're going to need help. You're also going to need to see a gynocologist to be tested once a year and to ensure you have no infections.
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Oh and I had intercourse the day after my period ended so the bleeding couldn't possibly be my period already
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I couldn't agree with you more! I hate the idea of abortion after all the researc I have done!! But I'm only 14 I'm not ready to handle a pregnancy. I'd go for adoption, but I can't face my parents it's my only option . Thanks for your help though
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1470528 tn?1324694321
i'm not sure abt the facts on abortion but frankly speaking it really has severe adverse effects on the health and even might effect future conception chances.. if you are not ready for a baby always take protection.. are you late for your period? wait for that... if not go for a blood test it will directly confirm it.. and you can take the abortion... even it there is a deadline.. i hope you won't mind.. but i just don't like this abortion business... take care..
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1470528 tn?1324694321
yes it is too late for plan b too work.. it works best within 72 hrs from the time of the act...
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*** =
ejaculate
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Oh and I forgot to add, I took plan B this time but I took it 3 days after is that too late?
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