My mother is 73yrs old; recently diagnosed with hyperthyroid, possible Grave's disease, and possible hyperparathyroid. She is lifeless, refuses to eat due to diarhea/constipation, weighs 88lbs(down in 6 months from 130), severe tremors, nervous/almost paranoid, heat/cold intolerant, LOW blood pressure 84/48, abnormal EKG(not sure of the extent), very confused almost like alzheimer's, recurrent UTI's, sore abdomen. Family dr missed thyroid for several months, she went to ER 2X for extreme heart palpitations, nausea, anxiety attack, and UTI but thyroid was missed again. Finally, I took her back to dr (had to force her to go) and demanded that he help us. He started her on thyroid med on low dose. Three weeks later she was worse. Took her back to family dr because of fear she was dying and NO ONE was helping her. Dr. immediately recommended asap visit to Endocrinologist. Endo started her on Methiamazole 10mg 3Xday; atenalol (?) for heart palpitations.Endo says admitting her to hospital would not help that it will just take time and maybe a long time. She does not appear to have a long time to wait. She has to be malnutritioned! She wont eat. We are VERY scared that appropriate treatment is still not being administered. If you can provide some sort of advice, it would be greatly appreciated.