I'm not that familiar with pathology reports or TT, lymph nodes, etc, but if the surgeon doesn't want to talk to you, it would seem like there might be some reason he's avoiding you. You might try calling the pathology lab and see what they have to say. Also, be sure to talk to the doctor that will be treating your hypothyroidism now that you have no thyroid.
If parathyroid glands (or parts of them) were removed, you're going to need calcium levels watched very closely and possibly have to take special calcium - did someone tell you that?