Help!! Results all over the place, feel horrible, & no one will listen!!!

[sweetnesskd]

So this all started because I have been trying to lose weight for the past 4 years and just continue to gain/remain a same weight.  I'm 27 years old, been dieting and working out strictly and have not had any loss and do the water weight fluctuation gaining/losing throughout the week.  I also feel tired and sore.  Have irregular periods (they last for 3 weeks, off for 1, then back again...and I'm on the pill) & no sex drive (extremely odd for me!!!!).  According to my fiance my neck swells up and he just never said anything to me until I started doing hypothyroid research and he just said he didn't want to hurt my feelings.  Everytime I describe my symptoms people immediately think thyroid problem, but my tests keep coming back normal so then my doctor wants to prescribe anit-depressants.  Here's my series of results:

23 Oct 2006
TSH 2.175 (normal 0.350-2.2)
Also did a lipid panel with high LDL Cholesterol Calc of 113 high (normal 0-99)

2 Nov 06
T4, Free(direct) 1.26 (normal 0.61-1.76)
TSH 1.137 (normal same as above)
T3 161 (normal 85-205)

So the doctor recommended anti-depressants and changed my dosage for my birthcontrol pill for the period irregularities.  Since they all came back normal I figured I just wasn't trying hard enough and tried weight watchers, stopped alcohol consumption, cut back on my Starbucks addiction.  Exercise regularly...took 1hr spinning class 3 times a week and combo cardio/weight class called Body Pump 3 time a week.  Still no weight change and instead of feeling more energetic and healthy, I felt worse...progressively shortness of breath...tired easily during my classes (this at 6 months into this routine)

31 Aug 08
TSH 3.89 (normal 0.4-4.5)

Wanted more tests because I read about the new TSH range and here are the most recent results...back to normal & still feeling like ****

15 Sep 08
TSH, 3rd gen  1.061 (normal 0.35-5.5)
Free T4 1.11 (normal 0.90-1.80)
T3  1.5 (normal 0.6-1.8)
Free T3 2.76 (normal 1.80-4.20)

HELP!!!!  I have an appointment with a new family practice doctor on 22 Sep and would like to be able to go to that appointment with these results and questions to help her help me!!!

[898]

If you believe that swelling is thyroid-related do the thyroid neck check self exam; the normal hormone levels cannot exclude thyroid disorder, such as euthyroid phase of thyroiditis.
The blood test for thyroid antibodies TPO/Tg and TSI may help to detect autoimmune disorder.

[sweetnesskd]

Oh yeah and I forgot to mention, my mom was diagnosed with Graves' disease right after she had me.