It's good that someone else posted because I don't think what I wrote came across urgent enough. Get help right away is what I should have said. :)
There isn't a dentist in the galaxy who won't pull a tooth, so know that, first.
You've had drama happen in your life that you should really look at and avoid, but that's not why I'm responding.
Yes, an infection in your tooth can absolutely kill you.
DID I GET YOUR ATTENTION??
I hope so, because what you have described is very, very serious.
My first job was as a Dental Assistant. I know what I am talking about.
Go to a dentist, immediately. If that one refuses to treat you then go to the emergency room.
You should do this RIGHT AWAY.
Please let me know how you are doing - and DO NOT WAIT A MINUTE LONGER. GO TO THE HOSPITAL if you can't be seen by a dentist IMMEDIATELY. There MUST be an emergency dentist somewhere close by where you live.
Do NOT wait, get this taken care of.
Hi. I'm sorry you're having so much trouble and I hope you'll feel better. Do you have any swelling of your face? I would try to get to a dentist or doctor and explain your symptoms as soon as you can even if you're not having swelling. I once got a bad abscess infection from going to the dentist and I got lesions on my gums. My father also got an abscess after going to the same dentist. He was the smarter of the two of us and got his taken care of more quickly. If you do have an abscess, you really need to get it treated.