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abortion ?
I want an abortion but im scared about the process. Please dont judge. Its a long story behind it. I just cant have this baby. Has any ever had one ? And how did u feel afterwards ?
Everyone has a story. You need to follow your heart and write yours. I was a child.in a home of drugs and abuse and was signed over to the government at 9. I was adopted at 12. I got pregnant by a drug user at 19 and knew I would not be able to provide for my baby. I was in college and wanted to break the cycle from my childhood. I had a very painful and awful abortion. I now have had six miscarriages and one kid. I am married 4 years, have a bachelors degree, and a beautiful two year old that my doc calls a miracle baby. I have such a beautiful life because I made the decision to wait to become a mom, but now am having trouble becoming a mom at all. Just think it through. There are pros and cons. You have to do what's best for you and that baby.
How you will feel is anyone's guess. Sounds like you're hesitating. No matter what you choose,there will likely be positive and negative feelings. Find a good counselor to help before and after. Thinking of you.
By the way, everyone screaming for adoption, people are more likely to want a child through their own pregnancy. That's why in vitro exists. I honestly feel that kids given up for adoption are more likely to be overlooked.
Don't do it :( you already have a living thing in you that will soon grow to something soo precious. God bless you.
Make sure you have a good doctor. Don't go to anyone who seems shady. I found out my original OB/GYN was performing private/secret abortions and he botched one. The woman died and he lost his license to practice. Needless to say, I don't go to him for anything anymore.
Whatever you decide, don't listen to those who are trying to judge. The only other piece of advice I can give you is that if you terminate, do it before a heartbeat can be seen/heard. maybe 1 - 3 weeks?? Because Once you hit that stage, it will be much harder on you emotionally.
Whatever you decide, don't listen to those who are trying to judge. The only other piece of advice I can give you is that if you terminate, do it before a heartbeat can be seen/heard. maybe 1 - 3 weeks?? Because Once you hit that stage, it will be much harder on you emotionally.
God also gave you free will to make your own choices and this is one of them. I myself had an abortion 15 years ago and it crosses my mind once in a while but overall I never had any regrets. The process itself was not too bad. I now have a whole different life, wonderful husband, and the most beautiful 2 year old little girl with baby #2 on the way. I made my choice and made peace with it. If I hadn't I would not have the house, career or beautiful family I have today and the stable life we are providing our children. That is just my story.
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