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abortion ?

I want an abortion but im scared about the process. Please dont judge. Its a long story behind it. I just cant have this baby. Has any ever had one ? And how did u feel afterwards ?
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People will judge you regardless. . It's not actually that scary. You need to do what's best for you. My ex was a psycho addict who tried to kill me then shoot junk into my baby. .. sometimes you only have so many options in life. I've never done drugs in my life and I can tell you that afterwards I was depressed but nothing could compare to knowing who your baby would grow up with as a father. .. telling you to go somewhere else is ridiculous.  People need to learn to live and let live.. you'll be fine! Just pray and think really hard and you'll do whatever the right thing is for you..
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I'm not judging, but please do some research into abortion. You could end up not being able to ever get pregnant again. Every single person is different and some of these women have testimonials of getting pregnant after an abortion, but that's not everyone who has ever had one. Plus, there are many couples who have had no luck having their own children and would give anything to adopt. Unfortunately, our government makes hard to adopt children out of foster care, so adoption of babies is a waiting list.
How do you feel when I say that a fetus' heart starts beating at only 5 weeks? How will you feel after you stop that heart from beating? Can you answer these? How will you feel 5, 10, 20... Years from now? You need to be well informed about this decision and mentally prepared for ALL of the physical & emotional possibilities after an abortion. Everyone is different and no one can make the decision or bare the outcome but you. I hope you can come to peace.
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All I can say is do what's best for you and your situation. I'm 19 weeks pregnant and 20, it was a surprise to us, but we couldn't be happier. That being said one of my best friends had to get an abortion because of many personal reasons, all I can say is either way have a good support system. Do what you think is best don't let someone else influence your choice, wish you all the best !♡
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And the heart starts to beat at 5weeks  and by that time you have just found your pregnant
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I had one and I truly regretted it. Even though I was fine and it went okay, the thought never left my mind. It's been over 2 years and I still think about it today. I told myself I would tell women who were thinking about having one to never do it. Seriously. Pray. I will say a pray for you.
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Anyway you get it done, your gonna cramp real bad. Jus like contractions.. after, it'll cross your mind every day. Goodluck
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