Yeah sort of have the same problem i had sex with my boyfriend and after the first couple of times i spotted and bled for a couple days. That is normal. But my problem now is me and my boyfriend havent had sex in a while so i masterbated and now i am bleeding again. I think its my vaginal lining that tore but i just want to make sure that sitting this out and letting it heal this time is the way to go.
If it hurts really bad, there's something going wrong. Like really wrong. You need to get checked out to make sure he's not doing you real damage.
And then y'all are going to either have to learn some positions that allow for deeper penetration without pain, or he's going to have to ease up on you. He's not... making you bigger. That "breaking through walls" thing is complete ********. He clearly has no idea what's going on in your body. He's HURTING you.
i have been with my fiance about a year, and well he is about 9-10 inches and pretty thick and we have sex and usually it doesnt hurt but only whenever he goes in all the way. he says he has "broken 3 walls" but i think he means that he has just made my vagina deeper but it hurts really bad when he is doing it but i want him to put it all the way in so i deal with the pain, after he has stretched out some of it he goes more and more at a time, and we have rough sex alot, i was wondering if its possible that he could rip the very back wall to the point it cant stretch anymore and what the medical effects would be?
I've actaully been through this and found a successful treatment. My vaginal wall tore during sex one time, i instantly started bleeding out uncontrollably, it was very painful to sit, urinate, and walk. I went to see a gyno and she told me why it had tore (because of not enough lubrication and having too much rough sex) but she said she could heal it by sewing up the wall just like you would if you put a stitch in. She stitched me up that day, told me to wait 6 weeks before i had sex again (to prevent from pulling the stitches out and tearing it again) and I've been pain free ever since. I would definitely talk to your doctor and see if it is possible for them to do a similar procedure.
I have he same problem with my bf, It was fine at first and then one day when we were having sex I felt a tear and ever since it has been excruciating to have sex. It hurt so badly for so Lon that I spent literally hundreds of dollars on doc appts, and nothing no one can tell me whats wrong. Lemme know if u guys find an answer.
Im having the same problem. I dont know what to do becausr everytime i have sex with my boyfriend its almost unbearable. I havent been able to go to the doctor because i have no insurance. If you happen to find out whats wrong please let me know. I hope its nothing serious.