Thanks u guys for your advice.. really helped me out.
its a hemmorroid.. I had the same thing and i used Tucks hemmorroidal wipes everytime i went to the bathroom and it was gone in a very short time... OH! and a little tip that helps ALOT.. you might think its weird, but it works great! when you go to sleep at night, wrap an ice cube in a washrag and apply it to the hemmoroid. The swelling goes down wonderfully and you'll feel better in no time! :)
I had a hemorrhoid like that the first time I was preg. It got very bad, but the dr can give you an anti-inflamatory to reduce the swelling. I still have flare ups, nothing like that first time thank goodness.
Thanks GRose for ur help.
It very well could be hemorrhoids but you may want to see a doctor to be sure. If it is indeed hemorrhoids you may want to hold off on anal for a while.