Bleeding during foreplay & intercourse

[Katii]

Im a 14 year old, sexually active female. Recently i've been experiencing the problem of vaginal bleeding during foreplay and intercourse. I've been sexually active for 8 months and have been experiencing this problem for about 4 months. I haven't been to my GP about this because i get really embarrased talking face to face to people about my problems.

Does anyone know why this is happening?

Thanks

[K_xo]

Hey,
I am 18 years old and i have just recently start doing foreplay and intercourse this year the first time i bled there wasnt as much and gradually everytime me and my bf do foreplay & intercourse i end up bleeding and there is a lot of it till this day and i havnt told anyone because its quite embaressing and i dnt knw what to do about it. I know about my boyfriends past and iknow he is clean and so am i because he is the first person i have had sex with. But i really dnt knw how to stop this from happening

[dida21]

It is always possiable to get pregnant even without intercourse, if you dont want to get pregnant at the moment then dont do anything with your bf. If your grown-up enought to start having sexy and extra and you really dont want a child that badly this soon then be grown-up enought to not do anything with your boyfriend until your done with studying and perpared to have a child it if does happen. I'm fully against aborting a child or perpiously forcing a miscarage so I'm not going to tell you how to  kill it.

But if your really that worried about getting preggy at this point in time in your life then dont do anything sexual that means fourplay intercourse and anything in that section. You shouldnt have to mess around with your bf to make him happy, if you really love him and he you then he should be more then willing to wait till your ready (done with your studying)

[bamsky]

I am about two months having no menstruation and I do coitus with my boyfriend. Is it possible to get pregnant? or if I take provera 10mg does it help me to menstruate of if I'm pregnant? will this may helpful to miscarriage the baby? I'm so worried right now because I'm still studying.. Any advice please?

[dida21]

I have a question for you all. I am 21 i've waited to have sex till i was 19 almost 20. ever sence i've started to have sex i've been bleeding at weird times. and i'm doin it at times that are no where near the time for my period. everytime I do anything sexual or forplay I bleed. I mean i've only had on sexual partner and he was really bad so he never really gave me an orgasm to start with. i never really do anything to myself ither. once or twice that i've tried it with my fingers and with a toy I was well lubed but found blood almost instantly after I started. Another thing is that I dont get any enjoyment out of it. So I'm starting to think that something is really wrong with me. Is anyone else having the same problems and does anyone know what is wrong with me? Please i need help~!!!~

[missy343]

You need to see a doctor... and if you are going to continue to be sexually active you will have to get over your shyness - any one who is sexually active needs to have regular STI checks and for women, they need to have regular pap smears.  
Its really not that bad - doctors deal with these types of problems all the time.  If you are having trouble talking to someone about your issues perhaps you could get an appointment with whoever prescribed your pill - or a gynaecologist perhaps.  They are experts on womens anatomy and reproduction so you may feel more comfortable talking to them.  You could take your mom or someone you trust with you if it would make you feel better....
Unfortunately these are the issues that you have to deal with when you start having sex.  If you feel you are adult enough to have sex then you have to be adult enough to take responsibility :)
good luck,
i hope everything turns out ok

[Cootos]

Hey, not to scare you or anything...but I had the same thing happen to me when I have HPV and Gonnoreah....and it happened everytime I had sex...I would really suggest going and seeing your doctor. Good luck!

[Katii]

I forgot to mention that i have never had unprotected sex, i am on the pill and have only have this one sexual partner