Can I be pregnant?

[Imconfused123]

Well, I am with a guy and I'm very happy with him and I have never had sex before with any of my exes and one day at his house we were watching a movie and we started to make out heavily and before I knew it my clothes were off. And he had no pants on and he began to be just lightly rub his "head" on my who-hoo and then I freaked out cause I wasn't ready. But he understood. I am on the birth control called the drop shot. But I'm afaird I could be pregnant but then we finally had sex and my cherry poped and we were using a condom does the bleeding mean I'm not pregnant? I'm just worried cause I don't want to be yet. Please I need some advice. And the drop shot stops my period so I don't know

[unhappyliver]

The bleeding means your hymen is now gone. If he only rubbed the tip of his penis the first time, you are on birth control, and he used a condom the second time...(and as long as the condom didn't break or slide off).. then you don't need to worry about being pregnant. You can still buy a pregnancy test from the drug store to ease your mind.

[Anonymouse88]

The bleeding is from your hymen ("cherry") breaking and causing a little bleeding.  This is just internal tissue trauma, and has no bearing on pregnancy whatsoever.  The birth control method you're on is called depo provera (which is a long acting shot that lasts for 3 months), not the "drop shot" (just for your future reference so that other people know what you're talking about).

If you used a condom in addition to having an up-to-date depo shot, then you're fine.  If you want to have a period, you can consider going on the pill, the patch, or the NuvaRing, which will let you have a period so you can monitor things more closely.