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Can't get wet-please help!

I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost five years.  However, for the past few weeks when we have sex it has been really hard for me to stay wet.  I am extremely attracted to him, but I don't know what to do! Sometimes it even hurts to have sex.  It is extremely frustrating and I don't know what to do.
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So glad i ran across this.. Starting my flax seeds now.. Thanks Sparkle520:-)
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how to eat flax seeds?
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I am having the same problem. I am 27 and i never had a problem like this.I really be in the mood to have sex with my bf but when he try to stick it in i am dry and that really hurts. could someone pls help me.
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I'm kinda in the same position, I'm 21 and I love sex its great but I haven't had sex in a month and I've been super horny and just doing it myself and I can get myself super wet but the other night I was with a guy and I just couldn't get turned on or wet. I drink a lot so Idk if they has something to do with it but I feel like if I use lube that the guy is gonna be like well I can't keep her turned on or wet enough then he gets turned off, so any feed back would be awesome!
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i FEEL THAT i AM IN THE EXACT SAME BOAT  i HAVE AN EXTREMELY SEXY HUSBAND BUT FOR SOME REASON MY FLUIDS JUST WON'T GET GOING WITH OUT  CUNNINGLUS OR LES PORN???
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Im having this same issue and im only 25. Ive tried ky and a bunch of other lubes nuthin wrks. I do drink alot of caffine so im going to cut back on that to see if it wrks any other suggestions bc this has been an emotional roller coaster
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