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Can't get wet-please help!
I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost five years. However, for the past few weeks when we have sex it has been really hard for me to stay wet. I am extremely attracted to him, but I don't know what to do! Sometimes it even hurts to have sex. It is extremely frustrating and I don't know what to do.
so can birthcontrol pills make u where u cant get wet ? im only 18 and im having problems wit staying or getting wet.... i dont rlly like KY i just want to find out why i cant get wet anymore... ive been on birthcontrol for a year now bc i had sergury. they had to remove a cysit that had burst and i had internal bleeding and now sense i can remember after taken the pill i am having this problem...i want sex and i get turned on and stuff but have trouble getting wet idk what to do, should i stop taken birthcontrol or wat... cuz i cant stand this
hey u just try with a dildo first and then u feel the same then try some lubricant dear and u r wet with that dildo then the problem from u r boyfriend that he cant wet you really....
Me and my girlfriend are both 18 and we have had this problem for pretty much the entire time we have been having sex. She gets really wet to the point where it goes through her underwear some times, but apparently this is not wet enough haha. As soon as we try to get it in it just does not go at all without lube, EVER. Doesn't feel natural to have to use all the time. What on earth is the problem in this case??? Please help!!!
I'm 17 and I had that same problem start up a month ago.
I couldn't get wet at all, which is not normal for me.
On top of that, sex was difficult and painful, and it itched.
But then finally after weeks of suffering and having some tension
with the boyfriend, it went away.
I couldn't get wet at all, which is not normal for me.
On top of that, sex was difficult and painful, and it itched.
But then finally after weeks of suffering and having some tension
with the boyfriend, it went away.
The best lubricant is you or your partners spit. it is natural and safe, and works really well. that won't solve your problem with lubrication fully because it won't last the whole time but it might help ease it at first until you can lubricate yourself. I would suggest to everyone that you should talk to your doctor or gynecologist because it could be hormonal imbalances or even depression/anxiety issues. Many birth controls change your hormone levels and chemicals in your body to where you are not as attracted to someone as you may have been before.
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