Okay, I am not whoever this lilmama is, I guess we are similiar in a way, but the hospital I went to was a training hospital, so I wasnt sure about anything really. I did look up things on the internet but I am not asking anyone if I am pregnant or not but I was trying to see if anyone went through the things that I am going through right now. Me and my fiance had a huge disagreement last night because of the alcohol intake and I am real upset right now, I dont know where to turn and this forum really helps me and gives me a lot of support, so if anyone out there knows anything that can reassure myself then let me know. And to answer someone elses question, we check the cervix but laying on my back, opening me up and using a flashlight to see, I have personally sen it for myself and if I am really honestly pregnant like I think I am, I will let everyone know, I have lower abdominal cramps that is why I went to the doctor to begin with.