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how can my boyfriend make me come first?

Okay so I’m with this guy and he always comes first and I’m just left there still wanting more. Well he can’t because he wants to rest. He does most of the work sometimes. But he is always the first one to finish and it’s starting to upset me. I’ve only been with 2 guys him and my first and I’ve only came maybe about 6 time and that’s with my boyfriend now who I’ve been with for about a year and 7 months. So please tell me if there is any way to fix this and to spice up our sex life
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maybe focusing more on 4 play  really finding what you like rather than getting straight in to the sex first and let him know you want to do this so he understands your not feeling your needs are being met as much as his and you want to be able to finish with him
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I'm sorry, I don't know the answer, though someone here might have some ideas. You might also want to post this over in the Men's Health community. There is a good Asian guy who recommends interesting stuff and I think he mostly posts there. Or try the Sexual Health community.
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