Getting pregnant with with pre-***?

[BOBS912]

Me and my girlfriend started to have sex but stopped after a couple of seconds with out a condom, because we both didn't want for me to go inside her. what are the chance of her being pregnant?

[monkeyflower]

Not high; pre-ejaculate in itself doesn't contain sperm. However, if you'd previously ejaculated and hadn't urinated since, there could be some sperm left in the urethra that would get flushed out with the fresh pre-ejaculate. It's a good idea to make sure you always use a condom :-)

[greenpixie]

I agree, pretty slim chances.  However, I've always heard that the reason the pull out method is not effective is because there CAN be sperm in pre-***.  Maybe it's just something they tell you when you're younger to keep you from having unprotected sex.  I'd follow this rule: anytime you have intercourse without some form of birth control (pull-out does not count), then the chance of pregnancy is there.  Actually, it's there with BC too, but there's less of a chance.

[BOBS912]

So if i ejaculated 2 days before this and urinated many times and didn't really get close to an orgasm while haveing sex what are the chances?

[ally1821]

very slim, the point is to never ever have unprotected sex again.

[IWantToBeAMom]

from the web:
Pre-*** can contain sperm.  

Precum, also referred to as pre-ejaculate, is a fluid that is discharged from the penis when a man is aroused but before he ejaculates (it coats the urethra and helps sperm to move).  While not likely, precum can contain sperm and a small number of pregnancies due to precum have been reported. Also, if a man has ejaculated recently the chance of precum containing sperm is slightly raised since it is possible for the precum to

[newcastleunited]

i'm in the same predicimate buddy, we did it for about 8 seconds, nowhere near to an orgasm, the orgasm came about 20 minutes later by way or handjob, but i'm scared shitless shes pregnant

what do you all think are my chances of her being pregnant,

1. penis wouldn't go all the way in
2. nowhere near orgasm
3. didn't bust before
4. about 8 to 10 seconds of thrusting
5. i looked at my penishole before, wiped it off to make sure nothing was on it, and did the same afterwards

[DaisyStPatience]

Listen,
I don't want to be condescending here at all. I know your position, but I'm telling you the facts.

Obviously neither of you guys would like to have children right now.
But sex is both a great thing and a huge responsibility.

For both of you the chances are VERY slim.
...Very.
But the very fact that you are both here, freaking out about very similar things proves a point.
A few actually
You aren't ready for a child, nor would you know what to do if your girlfriends' did conceive one day.
You both seem somewhat inexperienced, which means you have a lot left to learn before you go and scare yourself away with anxiety about accidental pregnancy.
Also, you have not been informed previously of the risks of various methods.

You very much need to look these things up.

If you feel like sex is inevitable, do wear a condom or put into practice some type of birth control.

The pull-out method is not reliable, ESPECIALLY to those who don't know what they're doing to a tee yet, and to those who don't know both their's and their partner's body extremely well.

Don't take the risk. It's really not worth it. And why bother with all of this stress.

[joshjosh91]

my girlfriend i were having sex.
sometimes we do it too hard, and the condom comes off inside of her.
but she always gets the morning after pill, everytime that happens.

today we were having sex and i always frequently check the condom.
i checked it several times, but then 5 minutes later, when i checked
it.. it had come off inside of her !

does she need to get the morning after pill again?
and what are the chances that she is pregnant ?
help ! i would really like to know how serious this could be !

[asdfg894]

i ad sex with my boyfriend about five days before i should have gotten my period, only for barely a minute and he only pre-cummed(if that) i have never had my cherry popped and i didn't orgasm. my period is two days late which is always rare i'm either on time or early, but i've been worrying abotu this for a week now- is it possible i'm pregant or likely i'm stressing which is causing a late period?

[Mingobear0712]

I agree. Finally an entire thread that is correct!! Sperm is not in pre-ejaculate except after a recent ejaculation without peeing first. It's been proven. There have been studies done, and out of those, none of the studies found sperm without a recent ejaculation, and after that, those sperm were said to be immobile. I too have had my freak outs. When I lost my virginity it lasted about 2 minutes without a condom, then it hurt, so he pulled out. I freaked out. I'm still kinda scared of it! But I know the truth and am glad other people do too. There are too many people going around scarring people telling them there is always sperm in pre-ejaculate. It's a huge myth and was probably started by planned parenthood for some organization trying to scare teens. It doesn't work...people still do it...it will never work...and it's not true. Good luck...but none of you probably need it. BUT, it's always better to practice safe sex. I am on the pill and we use condoms and it works fine. Sex is better without worry. :)

[Mingobear0712]

Oh, also...those pregnancies that were reported from pre-ejaculate have never been documented. the pull-out method fails mostly because people pull-out too late, or pull-out and ejaculate on the vagina. It's not a good method to use, UNLESS the man has great self-control and has not ejaculated before hand. That's it.

[rainbowxbrite]

My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex yesterday for about seven minutes. There was definitely pre-*** there, but he was nowhere near ejaculation. He had ejaculated a few hours before, but urinated a couple of times after it. I have bought the morning after pill because I am really paranoid..what are the chances I could get pregnant? Do you think I should take the morning after pill?

[Mingobear0712]

If you already bought it, you might as well take it. But be aware that it does screw with your body a lot. You probably have no reason to think you are pregnant. If he urinated before then, then any remaining sperm would have been flushed out. there should have been no sperm in his pre-ejaculate. Plus, were you ovulating? If you were not near ovulation time, you have nothing to worry about. The chances of getting pregnant from that are low even on your most fertile day. Don't worry.

[bebe55]

It was the last day of my period..i was still bleeding and me and my boyfriend had sex with a condom. We were having sex and then he stopped..I wondered why??? and he said the condom broke. He was no where near ejaculation, but there may be a possibility of precum..i worry myself sick every month..and im going to get on birth control this week:) what is the odds of me being pregnant?

[nik123456]

the odds are not high at all.
during your period, the odds of getting pregnant are slim to none.
so if he didn't ejaculate, you have NOTHING to worry about at all.
you'll be fine.
:)

[motherofan18month]

sorry to break it to all of you but i got pregnant on pre-ejaculate....it was only for a minute or so that my husband was inside without cumming and now i have an 18 month old......so you cant say that there is no sperm in pre-***!!!

[platinumdiva]

i got pregnant with pre-*** with my first child and im pregnant now with my third child by precum, and my doctor and others say that before a man *** fluid always come before that and its most likely semen comes along with it.

[imgonnabeamommy111608]

no. pre-nut does contain sperm, and you can def get pregnant by it. so if you arent trying to get her pregnant use protection. i got pregnant from pre-nut too.

[emprincess]

i just found out that i'm pregnant. my bf always pulled out but i guess that really didnt work out.. you can definetly get pregnant from pre-c/um

[hooploops]

i put my penis in her vagina for about 5 seconds maybe and im scared that precum could've made her pregnant. i ejaculated earlier that day but ive urinated maybe 2-3 times. what are the chances shes pregnant? help please.

[TheBeginning]

i can't believe no one here is concerned about any of the numerous STD's that they could contract by having unprotected sex.  especially because some of you seem very new to the whole sex thing... always better to have your bases... err.. penis covered.

[louieforlaughs]

in reference to the couple who are smart enough to put on the condom but seem to be losing it. you could try a cockring on top of the condom, make sure to leave enough air room for your ejaculate. you can buy some really fancy ones for her pleasure. perhaps that would be a fun activity for you both to go to a sex shop and look together and see what you can find. there are some really great shops out there with really well trained staff. dont be afraid to ask questions cause that is what they are there for. they aren't ashamed to talk about it and nor should you. : )  
you could also consider birth control for her or female condoms as well as boy condoms.  
it never hurts to double up either!
have fun and stay safe!!!

[CuriositySC]

5 days ago me and my boyfriend were close to having sex but he never went inside.  He had ejaculated (it didnt come close to me) a few minutes before and cleaned up (but didnt urinate). I'm pretty sure there was precum and it may have hit the outside of my vagina.  Is there a possibility that i could be pregnant??  I have sore breast but my period isnt late yet and i usually get sore breast before my menstral cycle anyway.  

[redmuse]

The chance of getting pregnant period is approximately 20%. Your highest chance of getting pregnant falls around the 12th-16th day after your previous period. If you are looking for answers, go to medical websites. They give out the best information. Or you can swing by your doctor and ask any questions that you or your partner might have. Try to use a condom everytime and make sure that your "member" is washed with soap if you decide to have another go around. Be safe and have fun!