Embarassing

[Amandagirl15]

Ok this is embarassing, but I was having anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time two days ago, and since then, it has really hurt back there and I haven't been able to poop.  What is going on and what can I do?

[sophiegashbash]

I tried anal quite a few times
and the first time it hurt and felt like i needed to waddle home
but trick is alot of lube
and make sure your ready and relaxed.

But i do agree with sunshine
its amazing what alcohol can do

But i wont ever be doing anal again
lol

xxxx

[poopeytiho]

I've tried it and it's not so bad. If you're trying it for the first time it's better to be lying on your back than on all 4's. It goes in easier.

[lauriebj]

I did it, plenty of lube, it slipped in way faster than I expected, i was shocked but didn't hurt, after relaxing my self a bit more it felt good and now I can't imagine not doing it, keep in mind you need to take extra care before you do it, clean it well inside out, a nice chamomile enema and your partner wont complain about a chili dog!

[Katydiddy]

I've done this a few times with my husband.  It took me a couple days to have a bowel movement too.  And when I did, it felt really weird.  If you decide to try it lubricate and relax your body or it will definitely hurt!

[JoAnnaRF]

Yep, mine has a big ole EXIT ONLY sign on it..
ROFLMBO

[flour]

Well I tried it this weekend. I just wanted to see what it was all about. I was DRUNK AS A SKUNK. It hurt so bad my bf said I kept jumping away from him so he said forget it. He was afraid he would hurt me. Now I am a little sore but not to bad. I don't think I will be trying it again too soon. I am going to get a tatoo on my tush that says "exit only". Hope you feel better.

[oceans3]

i cannot imagine something going in where something comes out? doesnt exactly float my boat either (but the "hubbub" wouldnt object). i just find that area no matter how well you wash, it aint clean! kinda tried "it" a bit here and there in the past but it hurt like the yahoos. now he just knows not to enter the exit.

[cutiemama]

Whatever floats your boat! I seriously give kudos to all those women who don't like it and are willing to do it to please their partners. Thank goodness for me I haven't had to make that choice as DH isn't into it and we've been together for over a decade. For me there is nothing more UNSEXY than the area through which your body rids itself of waste products, but hey... To each his/her own!

[pumpkin78]

after doing it a few times, it gets better....definitely the most intense orgasms I have ever had were from anal, but I don't do it anymore because of hemmoroids... :D

[JoAnnaRF]

You guys are seriously too funny!! To each his/her own, just NOT my cup of tea. And my DH has NEVER in 18 years asked this of me let alone "expected" it. If he did. I'd just have to tell him what I "expected" of him LOL And believe me, it would not be a pretty site. I've heard that even women enjoy this, not just doing it for their guy. I would hope that all the ladies that do this get something out of it. Not fair if you don't. Even if it is a bottle of wine! LOL J/K  *CHEERS*

[xrayu2]

where do you find analeze?  My husband been after me for a while to do this, but 2 slips in and I say no thanks.  That analeze might be the trick!!

[sunshineysmile]

i'm with blondie........i tried it once,HATED IT, and that was that, i'm lucky, everytime i have a drink or two, i may get adventurous and suggest it, i'm lucky cuz my dh says it feels no different than the "normal" way, so just let me tell ya i'm thankful for that in the morning!! LOL!!and i agree with whoever said lubrication is the key! lots of it. you should feel ok in a couple days.

[greenpixie]

Wow, you guys are either really adventurous or much better to your men than I am to mine. :)  I'm with Blondie, excpet I would never even try.  I already know that it would hurt and I'm so not interested...  The drinking part sounds fun though!

[kuradiputs31]

my bf really likes it...analeze is good it nums the area...

[Sunshine912]

Like I said Blonde, more power to you. My husband expected it out of me like every other man. OOOOUUUCCCHHH.

[blondie72]

OMG I am laughing so hard right now.  Sorry.  I have NEVER done that.  Tried once and it hurt so bad I wanted to puke.  I said NEVER AGAIN and I have not.  Sorry but my opinion - THAT IS AN EXIT.  My man better find something else he likes LOL!!!!!  I am NOT critizing anyone for doing it don't get me wrong - It is just NOT for me.  Take Care - Hope it gets better soon.

[Sunshine912]

You guys are so funny. I am laughing tonight.

[shedevil31]

WELL WHEN HAVING ANAL SEX THE  KEY IS LOTS OF LUBRICATION
YES THE MEN ENJOY THIS OF COURSE ...
DRUNK HELPS....
ITS AMAZING WHAT A FEW DRINKS CAN DO...REMEMBER PEOPLE GET BETTER LOOKING AT CLOSING TIME!

[ladyheart]

i agree with sunshine. it usually goes away and things get back to normal within a few days. I truly agree with the being drunk as a skunk part too lol

[Sunshine912]

I know that most women want admit that they haven't tried this one time or another with their husband or parter but it will hurt for a period because our body is not used to this. We are not equiped for this but we do this to make our darling husband or parter happy. If the ladys haven't done this, then more power to you. If the pain persist more than a week, then you definately need to see a DR as the comment above can be the case. The pain should go away. I am about to say somthing that may offend some. When you do this act. Make sure you are drunk as a scunk and not feeling nothing. HA HA. At least that is the way I feel.

[shedevil31]

Go see a doctor incase you injured your rectum