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How can I know if my girlfriend had an orgasm?

Hi,

Not sure if this is the correct forum to post to, but the Sexuality  one seems full for the day.

Me and my girlfriend dont have sex yet, but do fondle and try to give each other orgasms. I dont have a problem with mine, but do get confused about her. She does like me touching and massaging her down there but doesnt let me do it continously. She says that it stops giving her pleasure after some time. I am not sure if she has an orgasm and I desperately want her to have it. We talk and I make sure I am doing it corectly. She says she does have an orgasm but somehow I feel she just says it to make me feel good.

Please help. How can I know that she is having an orgasm?
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Ah Ah Ah Ah Ah Cheeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
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that is why i sniff pepper on a regular basis
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It's like a really, amazing, glorified sneeze.
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I truly respect your opinion to wait until you are married to have intercourse. That is an incredible decision, and I am impressed by the two of you. Best wishes in your relationship.
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We do keep contraceptives at hand for an emergency. Its just that we waiting for us to get married. We come from a culture where marriage before sex is prohibited. But we do understand each others body needs especially when in a relationship. And it makes me feel a bit guilty when I have it and she doesnt seem to.

I will take up all your suggestions and hope they help us. Thanks you all girls. You are wonderful.
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Remember too, because women usually take awhile to orgasm, it may be possible that she has become sore down below, because of all the friction.  Maybe she really is having an orgasm.  If she is saying so, but really isn't, maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, because she is sore.  Does that make sense?  You sound like a guy who really cares about his girlfriend's needs.  Talk with her- communication is more important then whether or not she is actually having the Big O.  Good luck.
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