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Hymen removal surgery?

Is there any way to tell if you are still physically a virgin? I have never had sexual intercourse, but I have used tampons since I was 13 and I read in a magazine that this could cause the hymen to break, but I didn't know for sure. Also, if you are still physically a virgin, is there a doctor out there who will remove it for you? I want my wedding night to be pleasurable not painful.. Thanks.
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hi,
I was told that i have a thick hymen by my doctor.and small one by a another.  i was also told if I was planning on have sex that there are ways to get ready for it. I was wondering with a thicker and small hymen would surgery be a good idea?
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I completely agree with joannarf.   As i was reading the posts, all i kept seeing was insecurity, insecurity, insecurity.  Goog luck in finding what your looking for freewilly. but with your attitude you'll be alone for a long time.
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OMG LOL!!, "...45 orgasms to a woman within the course of 24 hours (yes, I was counting, but only because it was so amazing. No faking; I assure you.)"

I assure YOU, willy, that is faking!!  And the Oscar goes to...

I totally agree with JoAnna, LMAO!!!!
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Admittedly I cannot relate at all to 48% of the population. Anyone who thinks that being anti-abortion or who will support our president no matter what or who thinks that oil wars are justified. When I think of the bible belt i think of the red states where my family is from and where religious beliefs replace common sense and the ability to think. There is little culture in those red states. Mostly "culture" = television. There are epic changes happening in the world and insulated areas tend to harbor the most patriotic communities. But patriotism isn't what's needed now. We need to think globally. We need to invest in education. Thanks to Bush's borrowing for the war ($400 billion) we're basically going to be unable to support our spending. In 20 years we'll see where we stand. I suspect we
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I'm sorry, but I just have to jump into this one for a minute. I am finding so much of this humerous, and a bit pathetic. First of all, I am having trouble understanding what George W. and the War and economy have to do with relationships, this is really not a political forum, but whatever.
I feel the need to inform you, freewilly, that you have been had! You think you are the one controlling your relationships as well as your sex life, but in fact you have been controlled by the women you spoke about. We women are REALLLY good at convincing men that they are driving when in fact you are lucky to be in the trunk. You have been dupped. And rightly so. Are you still with any of the women you have supposedly given multiple orgazms to? 45 in 24 hours. 20 in an hour. 30 in 3-4 hours. Sorry to stab you in the ole ego, but that didn't happen! Believe me, if it did, they'd be beating down your door.LOL
I have read all of your posts and come to the conclusion that you are very insecure in your own sense of masclinity. You are trying to validate your manhood by bragging about pleasing these women. When in fact I'd have to say that kjsk was right on the money. They were faking it in hopes of getting you to hurry up and finish so they could clean up and get the heck outta there. And counting them.. Please. It must have not been very good for you if you were still able to maintain the ability to count. Good sex makes it difficult for me to remember my own name let alone count to 30.LOL
I have found that the art of making love takes time to perfect. It's not something you can jump into, have the woman fake it and then KNOW if she is the ONE or not. After 18 years of marriage, my husband and I KNOW exactly how to please the other. There is no doubt as to the validity of pleasure as we have an honest relationship. This comes with time, knowledge, understanding, trust, experience, concern, caring, desire, and LOVE. These are not things you can obtain in the span of three dates. You are having cheap experiences. But to use an analogy, which you seem to enjoy.. If you play tennis with a different player every day, then how will you ever learn one's individual strategy? You won't. You will judge Thursday's competition by the match you had on Wednesday. And chances are, if they have the same level of expertise as you, you will lose. If you play tennis with one person with the same level of expertise as yourself for 6 months, you will learn their little quirks. All the in's and out's of how they play the game. And chances are, you will win. Sounds like most of the players you meet on the court throw the game and let you win so they can go play with the instructor who pays attention, gives pointers, and doesn't judge them.
I suggest you keep your racket in the closet until you learn the rules of the game.
20 in an hour LMBO ROFL tears in my eyes..
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