Missed period for two months...

[helise94]

I am 26 years old, have one son that is 4, I am sexually active in a monogamous relationship, no birth control, relatively healthy. I have been regular my entire adult life with my periods. Out of the blue I miss my period. The week before my period I had a yeast infection and it was treated with monistat 7. It is cured. 4 days past my missed period I went to the bathroom and when I wiped I got clear discharge with thin pink strands of blood. I thought my period was starting so I didn't think anything of it. Never got my period.

It has been two months and nothing. Negative HPT, urine tests, and blood. I have been having light cramping, nausea, headaches, and frequent urination. I went to the E.R. when I was 20 days late for a blood test to see if I was pregnant or having some sort of issue such as a cyst. They asked about my periods, and my first pregnancy, I didn't show that I was pregnant until I was almost three months along. They ran a qualatative blood test and urine both negative. They did a pelvic exam and she said my uterus is soft? She said to get checked out by my regular doctor which is hard for me due to lack of insurance. I do have an appointment next month at the health department. What is wrong with me? I'm scared its something awful like PCOS or cancer. I would be extremely happy if I was pregnant but I don't think I am with all the negative results. Please help!

[helise94]

Well, got some more results in from my blood test, no thyroid problem, the lady I talked to said it doesn't indicate PCOS as of right now.
Cramping has become extremely mild, I constantly have to go the bathroom, and I'm having random bouts of diarrehea.
Has anyone had this happen to them? Any advice is appreciated!

[helise94]

I read several articles on that and I am pretty sure I don't have adenomyosis. Several reasons is none of the symptoms fit me, this disorder of the uterus usually occurs later in a woman's life after her child bearing years. When the doctor did a pelvic exam on me she said it was soft she didn't say it too soft or bulging downward. She only used her hands for the exam so no sonogram/ultrasound was used.

I was more leaning towards a cyst, chemical pregnancy, thyroid disorder, or undetected pregnancy (since that has happened to me in the past). I can't wait till September rolls around for my appointment because this makes me nervous that it may be something bad going on.

[nastythyroid]

Hi, Very, very occasionally, it is possible for a woman to have negative results to detect pregnancy when she is infact pregnant.  This is because the hormone levels are not sufficient to be detected.  You say you had a pelvic examination, therefore, you are almost certainly not pregnant as the doc would have been able to tell.  As for your uterus being soft, it could be indicative of a condition called adenomyosis which would account for your cramping, although generally there is more discomfort to the point of extreme pain, not unlike the cramps of childbirth or Braxton Hicks contractions.  Some women have what's called (and it's a horrible term), a "boggy" uterus; a term indicating a sense that the uterus is softer and spongier than average. "Bogginess" is somewhat of a soft call, since the uterus can occasionally be slightly enlarged and "boggy" in women who have had children, even if no adenomyosis is present.  Without tests, it is difficult to make a diagnosis, sorry that I can't be of more help.  Here is a link you may want to have a look at - it's entitled Endometriosis but covers adenomyosis so don't be freaked out by the title.  Good luck!
http://www.endometriosistreatment.org/html/adenomyosis.html