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Pink spotting and belated period .. Ughh...help need an explanation?!?!
Ok so im 14 and im having sexual relations with my boyfriend ..and we dont use protection. Hes always pulled out never came in me, and my periods is so far more then a few days belated. And when i wipe and light pink spots appear occasionly
But right now im in a few situation .. Have had major family members pass ... Along with a major surgery in my hip. So im thinking my period being belated is a effect of stress. And im think my spotting might be getting ready to hit my period. Or oral with finger nails cutting my insides im just confused and i dont want any comments about me being young because ive had too grow up faster then most. So if feel like your going to make a smart comment then exit off this posts.
But right now im in a few situation .. Have had major family members pass ... Along with a major surgery in my hip. So im thinking my period being belated is a effect of stress. And im think my spotting might be getting ready to hit my period. Or oral with finger nails cutting my insides im just confused and i dont want any comments about me being young because ive had too grow up faster then most. So if feel like your going to make a smart comment then exit off this posts.
I'd suggest the first thing you do is buy a pregnancy test from the store. It will be the quickest answer.
Do you have blood in your urine or is it coming from your vagina when you wipe? Urinary tract infections can cause blood in your urine and you don't always have all the symptoms. (I found out I had a UTI and didn't have any burning or blood). You'll have to take a urine test at the doctors.
Since you are sexually active, you should start going to a gynecologist for a pap smear and pelvic exam once a year. I was sexually active at your age and started going at 13 years old to my gynecologist. I ended up having complications with ovarian cysts and had to be put on birth control to prevent them and also because my period was really heavy and clotted.
I know you don't want to hear any preachy comments. But the only thing I feel like I have to say is to please use protection in the future. The pull out method does not work. I ended up getting pregnant because I wasn't on the pill, didn't use any protection and my ex boyfriend "pulled out". So it does happen. You can talk to your gynecologist about different options for birth control and/or protection.
If you don't have insurance, you can find a Planned Parenthood near you. You can get birth control pills from Planned Parenthood if you are under 18 without your parent's consent. You might want to look up Planned Parenthood under the state you live in to make sure. You can call them and tell them about the spotting you are having and make an appointment. They can check you for urinary infection, pregnancy, stds, and anything else if you aren't able to pick up a pregnancy test from the store.
I'd suggest calling them (or your doctor) as soon as possible. Wish you luck and good health!
Do you have blood in your urine or is it coming from your vagina when you wipe? Urinary tract infections can cause blood in your urine and you don't always have all the symptoms. (I found out I had a UTI and didn't have any burning or blood). You'll have to take a urine test at the doctors.
Since you are sexually active, you should start going to a gynecologist for a pap smear and pelvic exam once a year. I was sexually active at your age and started going at 13 years old to my gynecologist. I ended up having complications with ovarian cysts and had to be put on birth control to prevent them and also because my period was really heavy and clotted.
I know you don't want to hear any preachy comments. But the only thing I feel like I have to say is to please use protection in the future. The pull out method does not work. I ended up getting pregnant because I wasn't on the pill, didn't use any protection and my ex boyfriend "pulled out". So it does happen. You can talk to your gynecologist about different options for birth control and/or protection.
If you don't have insurance, you can find a Planned Parenthood near you. You can get birth control pills from Planned Parenthood if you are under 18 without your parent's consent. You might want to look up Planned Parenthood under the state you live in to make sure. You can call them and tell them about the spotting you are having and make an appointment. They can check you for urinary infection, pregnancy, stds, and anything else if you aren't able to pick up a pregnancy test from the store.
I'd suggest calling them (or your doctor) as soon as possible. Wish you luck and good health!
wait two weeks after the last sexual relation (or when u think u could have gotten pregnant) or 2weeks after you should have gotten ur period and take a pregnancy test..... then u will know, get birth control is so easy why arent you on that already? :S doesnt need parents permission or money just go to the closest hospital and do it. i suggest pills. if you have your sexual partner support (i hope you do if youre having relationships with him) tell him that u both could get a lil money and go to the ginecologyst, dont be affraid! they arent expensive, u dont have to talk about the pregnancy thing to him if you dont want lol, btw i think its probably stress but you should check out, greetings
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