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Poor anatomical fit?
Hello,
I had to recently end my relationship with a great man because it seemed that we weren't fitting anatomically. Approximately 10 years, he sustained injury (likely penile fracture) during intercourse, resulting in loss of function secondary to reduced blood flow. Since regaining function he has had to be very careful in bed because certain positions would exaccerbate the injury, resulting in pain and reduced functioning (longer to ejaculate, no morning erection). The specialist he went to told him he was an excellent candidate for surgery but because it was a major one and he was able to safely have sex with his restrictions he never pursued it. We started dating recently and we found that something was causing his penis to bend and then reduce blood flow, especially during missionary (even with hips raised). Very few positions were comfortable for him and ultimately he was scared he would lose functioning and we had to break up. He said he never had this problem with other women and I know I've never had another man complain. What could it be about my anatomy that would re-aggravate his injury? Is there any resolution on my end? He is currently contemplating having his surgery as things have not been right for him since.
I had to recently end my relationship with a great man because it seemed that we weren't fitting anatomically. Approximately 10 years, he sustained injury (likely penile fracture) during intercourse, resulting in loss of function secondary to reduced blood flow. Since regaining function he has had to be very careful in bed because certain positions would exaccerbate the injury, resulting in pain and reduced functioning (longer to ejaculate, no morning erection). The specialist he went to told him he was an excellent candidate for surgery but because it was a major one and he was able to safely have sex with his restrictions he never pursued it. We started dating recently and we found that something was causing his penis to bend and then reduce blood flow, especially during missionary (even with hips raised). Very few positions were comfortable for him and ultimately he was scared he would lose functioning and we had to break up. He said he never had this problem with other women and I know I've never had another man complain. What could it be about my anatomy that would re-aggravate his injury? Is there any resolution on my end? He is currently contemplating having his surgery as things have not been right for him since.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello,
A women’s vagina adjusts according to the length of the penis. Maybe you are having intercourse when dry or when there is not adequate lubrication which may be causing this problem.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.
A women’s vagina adjusts according to the length of the penis. Maybe you are having intercourse when dry or when there is not adequate lubrication which may be causing this problem.
It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.
It does not sound as if the problem is on your end. Let this man have his surgery, then go from there. Things may work out. - Blu
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