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Pregnant by fingering?

I'm a male and I fingerd a younger girl like 13 years old but she looks like 15-16 with her body and build, and I didnt know if I could have possible gotten her pregnant because like a few hours or an hour befor I went over there I had masturbated and clean myself off by whipping everything I saw off, but I cant remember if I had washed my hands, but now im worried cause were both really young and past few days I have just been feeling like I want to puke. I havent told her what I may think just incase im wrong about it but she doesnt like have her period till later this month around the end of the month, I would guess which is 2 weeks away and just am really nervous about it for what my parents, her parents, and what the law might do if she was. Please help me out cause im just like having a nervous break down over it. Thanks.
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(Kjsk) Yea I still think about it from time to time but when ever I do I just come on here and read what everyone has said and it relieves me some. Yea, she still calls me and all but time will tell. Yea didnt know about the e-mail thing on here sorry. Yea hopefully I wont do anything to get myself into a situation to get me back to this point of asking everyone what they think will happen, I wont hesitate and ill check up on this forum convo to see if yall have anymore oppinions on the matter.

(IWantToBeAMom) Thanks for your opinion on the matter.  Yea there was no "glob" on my hand.  Yes thank you and thanks for your advice and knowledge on the subject.

Yea if anyone else has any input on the topic please post.  I will probably send a post latter on at the end of the month/begining of the month to let yall know how everything is and all. I guess just sit back and wait huh.
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I disagree with the comment of "even if you had a big glob of "it" on your finger and inserted your finger in her you'd still be ok.".  

I don't think it's very likely that in this particular case the girl is going to get pg, but if you're introducing a big glob of semen to the vagina then YES pregnancy can happen!  I know you said you wiped your hands and so that's why it's highly unlikely in this instance.  But be warned that even though the outside of a "glob" is exposed to air, and in theory that would kill those swimmers, the inside of the glob is NOT exposed to air and those guys are very much viable.  There's millions of sperm in one ejaculation and it only takes 1 sperm to make a baby.  So no matter how the semen gets introduced to the vagina, they can still swim.

Although rare, a woman CAN get pg by simply having semen at the entrance of her vagina - they're not called "swimmers" for nothing.

Just be sure to be educated about every aspect before you go fooling around with more girls - PREFERABLY your own age!  You've probably lucked out this time, but stop playing with fire.  You can go to www.babycenter.com and read the articles under Conception to research fertility further.  

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im glad i was helpful to you and youre feeling better about the situation. im also glad you "cut the ties" as best you could with the young girl. i would love to help you out (because its my nature) but unfortunatly youre not supposed to post email addresses here. ANYTIME you wanna post here on the forum, i will be here and so wont many others with awesome advice. take care of yourself and dont hesitate to post again for whatever reason. be good!
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(Kjsk) yea and no I told you the whole story lol if I was afraid to tell anything I woulda lie about her age or somthing or not told yall I had masterbated even though I mean come on we know everyone does it and if they say they dont... you know there lieing. Lol I love how you said "it". Yea i just got off the phone with her just a few hours ago cause I told her maybe when shes older we might be able to go out if we still feel the same about it and she seemd fine with it. Can you send me and e-mail cause you have helped me out so much and i would love to just chat with ya and if i had any more questions or concerns we could just do it like that or if you have like aim or somthing. My e-mail is ***@**** and put a subject that i would know if you do sned me an e-mail so i know its not some junk mail. Oh and she wants to see me and all cause she misses just bein around me but i think she has more of an attraction to me than she would a guy her age anyways because of the age and i can drive and so on. You know how that is riight? Eh she hasn't even thought anything about it. Just I suddenly thought of it and it just got me paranoid from there. But yea please do send me an e-mail i would love to hear from you and you have been a great help to me truely. oh and also send an e-mail to ***@**** incase i dont get it on yahoo. Oh and I messed with her like umm the 4th of this month I think it was and the other day she does cheerleading so she tends to get hurt and said she was sore and i manifested that into my head if you can imagin and my sister was like was she hinting at somthing or did you just come up with that  on your own. i was like i came up with that on my own. She has a hurt wrist atm from cheering. Well i have to go to bed cause schools in 7 hours and i stayed up till 12:30 last night just to wake up at 6 this mornin and it was crucial. please send me an e-mail. ttyl.
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dont feel shakey at all! you have nothing to worry about (unless you did indeed sleep w. her and your not coming clean w. it out of fear). if what you say is true, you can rest easy..seriously. even if you had a big glob of "it" on your finger and inserted your finger in her you'd still be ok. i get the feeling you are more worried about the age situation and it may come back to bite ya.  has the girl called you at all? does she want to get together w. you again? is she worried she may be pregnant? its all still fresh in your mind. give it time it will all calm down.
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oh i forgot to congratulate you for not having sex yet either. way to go boy!!!
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