Sex drive

[saadiyahh]

Whenever my husband tries to have sex with me
I dont feel aroused at all. What should I do?

[saadiyahh]

Thank you Pamela ... I will definately try on glycerine... any other medicinal lubricants you might suggest?

[saadiyahh]

Thank you Pamela ... I will definately try on glycerine... any other medicinal lubricants you might suggest?

[CRSeaside]

Try using glycerin as an addition lubricant.  It can help you feel more turned on too. Especially when compared to dryness.  Your husband can also participate in more foreplay with you, designed especially for you. An old Readers Digest article said, men can climax in 6 min on average. While average time for a woman to climax is 20 min. The article was called " who's going to make up the 14 minutes?" .   Frank discussions with husband will help too.  Let us know.  Pamela

[saadiyahh]

We are a newly married couple, no kids, lots of love. But when it comes to sex I think he gets erect faster then I get hot enough to get wet. So it hurts when he rubs it on my vagina. I enjoy masterbating more ... may be thats the problem  :-(  I know exactly how
and when to touch :-(

[simi06]

reflect about your relationship with your husband... some kind of emotional problems might be there.. talk about it. spend time together. talk talk talk... try to bring back the playfulness and cheer.. things will change...God bless..

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Are there other issues in the relationship?  Are you two getting along?  do you take any medication?  Do you have young children?

[CRSeaside]

How is your libido overall?  Do you enjoy romance novels or movies?
  Sometimes we need to take control of our own sensual well being first. Then go to your husband when you are ready & interested.  Pamela