To my breaking point

[Kelz72312]

I am constantly stressed out I'm going through way to much I am 20 with 3 kids and the 4th on the way.. My husband all he wants to do is play a dang video game from the time he wakes up to the time he goes to sleep and then my parents all they want to do is run their
Mouths about everything! I mean my dad constantly always runs his mouth about everything and always has an attitude or something to say to me everyday.. I'm already going through enough problems with the baby I tested positive for going into preterm labor and have been in and out of the Drs I've been constantly dizzy and having constant anxiety and always tensed up and always sick with sinus issues and I have an upper respitory infection that I can't seem to get rid of.. Idk what to do to manage all these symptoms and all this stress I'm losing a lot of sleep due to me
Being so stressed out and me being pregnant having a lot of back pain and a lot of pelvic pressure... Everyone is constantly getting an attitude with me about everything.. And I'm constantly looking out for everyone else before myself and I have to deal with my kids by myself basically because my other half wants to play that game 24/7 and when I ask him to do something he will tell me yeah hold on and I end up having to do it!!! I just don't know what to do or how I can get rid of all of this

[Kelz72312]

Thank you so much I just needed to get it out I have no one to talk to as all my friends moved away or don't talk to me anymore and when I try to talk to him or my parents they say your fine just brush it off I'm like seriously do you know how hard it is to feel like crap everyday and be so stressed out I can't even function right Nd they just don't care. I just hope all this stress and the sickness I have goes away soon it's too much for me to handle.

[veromazarelli]

I am so sorry!
That is a lot to have to be dealing with, especially at such a young age.

There were a couple things that came to mind as I read this....
You are going to have to take control. Take a minute to jot down some notes, that way you are prepared, and have a talk with your husband. But you have to do it at the right time. Not when you've asked him to take out the trash and you can tell he's getting frustrated. However, you can wait too long either. That's not going to be good for you either. Explain to him that you feel that you are at your breaking point. Tell him how it makes you feel...
Avoid saying "You never" or things like that. Make sure you get your point across.
You are about to have baby #4, these are the type if things you do not need to be dealing with.
Make sure to let your husband know (as well as your other family members) that you can't afford to keep feeling this way. Your health and the health of your unborn child depends on it.

I really do wish I had the right words.... Or the best advice. I do hope the best for you....