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wondering whats going on
alright so my husband and i have only been married a month as of june 7th. I'm 21 he is 24. we tried to have sex a couple of times but were not successful, my muscles were too tense since it was my first time. we didn't succeed until june 9th was the first time we had sex. we started to have sex without a condom to see if it made a difference since i was starting to think that after a month of no sex maybe the condoms were what was bothering me. so we started without one and then he pulled out before he was going to do his part and we were able to put on a condom to finish up. My last period was on may 10th and it lasted about 6 days my cycle can range anywhere from 30-35 days and i normally get them every month. we went away to greece for our honeymoon which has 7 hours time difference for us. i believe i was due for my period either yesterday (the 13th) or the 12th but i haven't gotten them yet. a couple of days ago when i would wipe myself it was really slippery but we haven't had sex since the 9th and we were not planning on having a baby yet i just don't know if maybe stress from the last month is making me late or if it would somehow be possible that we are infact pregnant... if i were since he didn't go inside me to finish up how would it be possible that we would be?
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Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I took at HPT yesterday and it was negative, is it weird that i was a little disappointed? lol I thank God for people like you whom are not judgmental and are genuinely here to help out when its needed! i appreciate you! :)
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Congrats on your recent marriage! Ok, so you were due yesterday or today, I wouldn't panic yet. You could go to the store and buy a HPT and take that. Otherwise, I would chalk the lack of period up to travel, stress, or it could just be a couple days off this month. Good luck to you :)
Congrats on your recent marriage! Ok, so you were due yesterday or today, I wouldn't panic yet. You could go to the store and buy a HPT and take that. Otherwise, I would chalk the lack of period up to travel, stress, or it could just be a couple days off this month. Good luck to you :)
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You sure do start out with a good question...now as I understand what you wrote several thing pop up right away..(NO pun intended), your age...I have found that most woman go through cycles of their cycles...about every 5 years or so, a change in timing, duration and in cramping is involved,and as well, you were a virgin, that in it's own right can cause a change in the chemicals in the brain, it doesn't matter what age you are...As for the pulling out..okay just know for future reference...the pre ejac, (lubricant for us), can have sperm in it if there was some in the tube already, ie second time around or if he was satisified by other means shortly before....bottom line....You are right...stress can change our cycles although I do not think the 7 hour time change is a factor at all....SEE YOU JUST LAUGHED!!!! I will say that OUR timing is not always the correct time...And I do know this...ANYTHING is POSSIABLE!! Please keep us updated and I am so happy to read that there are still people,(KIDS) out there waiting for sex until after marriage....Have a wonderful Blessed Day!!! GOD BLESS!!!!! loimmarmar