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What to do
I'v been with this guy on and off for over 8 months.I really love him but he always seems to change his mind when it comes to how he feels.We have sex quite alot.We are not together at this present time but still are having sex with eachother.i think that this was the wrong move to make because it has effected our relationship.Also he is very violent towards me now and seems to say he hates me more now and we argue over such little things.What do you think i should do? Do you think his just using me for sex?
Why are you with this jerk? It doesn't sound like he loves or more importantly respects you. If worse comes to worse have your parents help you to get a restraining order and you need to get in for some counseling. It sounds like your self esteem is very low!!!!!
~a mom of 5~
~a mom of 5~
I agree 100% with Phoebes29. He's using you and it's sad that you don't realize it. :(
I honestly think that he is just using you! But it isn't all his fault necessarily, because it takes two! I think that even if you are pregnant with his child, (which I don't think you are but anything is possible.) you need to get rid of him because if he's violent toward you, then odds are he'll be violent towards your baby eventually! Please get out of the relationship! It doesn't sound like it's doing either one of you any good! And if you're pregnant, you don't need this kind of stress on you! My prayers are with you!
The chances you are pregnant are there, but are low. You were probably not ovulating. But you could have been. You can't test for 2 more weeks. Leave him alone until then. When you find out you are or are not pregnant, do what you need to. If you're not pregnant, don't speak to him anymore. If he is violent, why are you with him at all? You're 16. You're too young to be in an abusive relationship. You're not married to him...just walk away.
im 16 years of age.Im not sure if im pregnant but i could be.Even though the chances are low im worried.We had sex on thursday just gone and he ejaculated inside of me without protection.Dont ask why i have no idea why we didnt use protection.Then again he didnt tell me he ejaculated until after we finished having sex.Also the reason i know the chances of pregnancy is low is because i had sex one day after i finished my period.I cant talk to his parents because he would make my life a living hell.His already violent towards me and im scared of him and what he will do if i turn out to be pregnant.
What do i do
What do i do
How do you know you're pregnant? Have you taken a test? Don't get involved with him until you know for sure that you are pregnant. You would have to know for sure and talk to his parents or something. How old are you?
Theres a chance that i could be pregnant with his baby.I'v tried to talk to him about it but he just shuts off and says its nothing to do with him what do i do.
Please Help!!!!
Please Help!!!!
Yes, he is probably using you. Don't give it to him. If he doesn't want to be with you, do not have sex with him. Just stop seeing him. Period.
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