U dont have to tell ur parents that u have sex because it could have nothing to do with that. It could be a yeast infection/UTI and i say that b/c i have actually had one the past 4 days. I went to the docs yesterday n they gave me antibiotics because the over the counter treatments werent working and when they told me it was both i said that weird n they said its rare to have both but it is possible and it would most likely have nothing to do with u haveing sex b/c yeast infections are actually caused by the overproduction of yeast and good bacteria in your body that u naturally have so again u dont have to tell ur parents u have sex and im sure ur mom has gotten one at some point. Statistics show atleast 75% of women by the age of 35 have had atleast 1 yeast infection but u do need to get over the counter treatment (Monistat) or something from doc to treat it because it can if left untreated can lead to Pelvid Inflmatory Disease (PID) or future infertility (not able to have children). So i would get to the store n get Monistat 3 as soon as possible or get to the docs asap.
The thing is that she is the type of mom that will ask me all kinds of questions just for me to tell her the truth and since she knows im in a relationship they first thing she is guna ask me its that if i had sex and my parents are so strict thats why im so afraid to tell her about this symptoms were can i get the monistat are those pills or cream
I know the feeling. Ive been with my fiance for 4 years now...when we started going out i was 14 n he was 17 so trust me i know the feeling but she asks because she cares n ive learned that over the years n if she asks then just tell her no because again a yeast/UTI wouldnt have anything to do with u having sex. Its something that every woman naturally has in their body regardless of if they are sexually active or not. Its better to tell her because worst case scenario if it was that and something worse i think u would want ur mom there. About a year ago i had really bad stomach pains n thought i was preg n having a miscarriage. I didnt call my mom n my fiance rushed me to the hospital. I didnt tell her incase thats what it was n she was very hurt by it because shes my mom n she loves me n it turns out i had a large cyst on my ovary that has swelled up and now to this day my doc isnt sure if i will be anle to have children and im only 19 and thats something i have always wanted was to be and mom and have children with my fiance. Since she found out she has been there every step of the way n has really come around a lot more than she used to so in the long run its best if u tell her because a lot of the time if a yeast/UTI is bad enough like mine it cant be treated with over the counter its needs an antibiotic and u have to be careful, its rare but ur bf can get a yeast infection from u if u dont get treated for it. U can get it in CVS, Walgreens. Just about any drug store. I tyink they run about $30
Thats true im 19 yrs old too n i will try to talk to my mom about this with out her knwing i started having sex i just hope it got nothing bad and that all this goes away thank yuh for yur time and hope all things get better with yuh i really apreciate it
You are very welcome and im here if u need to talk and by the way b/c of ur age legally u can go to the docs and legally they cant tell her u were there or why u were there.
Yea okay then i will go see a doc asap and btw i alredy told my mom about it and she didnt quetion me at all she just said she was guna take me to the doc so im more calm now thank you again