Vaginal Tearing during sex

[silentobserver]

I think, but not really sure if this is where I should post this.  But I have some questions that I would like to have answers to.  Recently my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time.  He is umm kinda big.  And I haven't had it that big before.  Anyway, when we first started there was no problems for entry but it started hurting.  It wasn't too big of a deal.  Well now I have tears...in two or three locations on the outside of my vaginal area.  It hurts to move in anyway including going to the bathroom for obvious reasons since they are cuts.  But I was wondering what I should do?  The pain is unbearable.  Almost like when I had my son and I ended up with four tears.  Thanks.

[cmt922]

have you ever found a solution/answer? I had this same problem a year ago. Tested positive for HSV 1. However, after no symptoms of HSV for an entire, I got blood work redone and found out I was negative? All the while, I get the same cut everytime my boyfriend and I of 2 years have sex multiple times a day/consecutive days. Currently, I have one of the worst cuts I've had in some time and it's so closely resembling my first herpes outbreak it is making me nervous. Any medical advice out there as to what to think/start asking my doctor?

[ShellyDolittle]

We buy the 100ml bottle of Pjur Woman Bodyglide 100ml / 3.4oz bottle at

http://www.pjurusa.com/category.jhtm?cid=130

Remember that a small drop goes a long ways.  I even use it for chapped lips. The great thing is that it never gets sticky.

I also found that taking a coconut oil supplement seems to have strengthened the skin.  I take 1000mg gel cap per day and get it from Puritan's Pride on-line. I also used the topical coconut oil cream on the tearing area for a few weeks to be extra cautious. I still use it on occasionally as a lotion on other parts of my body.

http://www.puritan.com/coconut-508?searchterm=coconut&rdcnt=1

We seldom see tearing once I healed, took the coconut oil, and watch to use the lubricant if I experience dryness.

It is wonderful to be tear free even after robust and long lasting lovemaking. The only time I've experienced any tearing, and that was very minor, was when we were having particularly robust lovemaking and he slipped out and thrust up along the top towards my clitoris. We just need to be careful when we get overly active although he slipped out the other night with no tearing at all.

I hope this helps you. Feel free to send me an e-mail directly if you have any further questions.

***@****

Shelly

[anida23]

i have been looking through numerous websites on where abouts u are suppose to tear after first time and from what iv gathered, the muscles between the vag and the anus is not suppose to tear, or is it? Or is the angle wrong, is there something wrong with me?

i push through the pain i get, which isnt too bad but after about 5 mins of trying i need to stop, we have been doing foreplay for years now so i thought that wouldnt be a problem

seriously confused/worried

[sophie011]

I've had the same problem /: like during sex as it goes in it bleeds straight away and I always get a cut :S I know I should keep it clean but why is it actually caused /:

[vyoleta]

so i've seen so many problems here but does anybody who had those problems can answer if there is something to help for this vagina cuts??? i've seens lots of doctors and they don't know what to say to me. I have this problem for 2 years and i can't have sex whit my bf i have a psihologycal problem i am scared that tear can open every time.:(((((((
sorry my english is not to good.

[MetalPipe]

Hello, I am 18 years old and I have a similar problem. I've had sex with this guy a couple of times and he would tear me and it'd heal so I wouldn't worry. I had sex with him last Thursday... But now... I'm getting swollen from the entrance to where it connects to my anus, and it's very swollen. I also have a cut near my Labia minora... It also feels like where they connect near the entrance ripped also a little bit. I've been using peroxide and neosporin but the pain is just getting worse. It hurts when I swab Q-tips down there to clean it (Also a green-ish mucus comes out when I swab the Q-tips) and the one tear bleeds whenever I try to clean it. The pain is starting to get un-bearable... I start to cry because it hurts so bad, and feel like I have to vomit the pain is so horrible. Sometimes I just drop the Q-tips because it hurts so bad. I'm really scared because now it's getting worse to even lay down, let alone sit. Also on my right inner lip there seems to be a bump, I'm thinking from drying it out from the peroxide and everything... But should I still go get checked?