Vaginal Tearing during sex

[silentobserver]

I think, but not really sure if this is where I should post this.  But I have some questions that I would like to have answers to.  Recently my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time.  He is umm kinda big.  And I haven't had it that big before.  Anyway, when we first started there was no problems for entry but it started hurting.  It wasn't too big of a deal.  Well now I have tears...in two or three locations on the outside of my vaginal area.  It hurts to move in anyway including going to the bathroom for obvious reasons since they are cuts.  But I was wondering what I should do?  The pain is unbearable.  Almost like when I had my son and I ended up with four tears.  Thanks.

[CKCrit]

Hi, I posted already just to say thanks for the tip but now I am posting to say WOW...What a difference. Only used the "Unrefined" Coconut oil for 4 days before hubby and I tried it out. Absolutely no pain and no tearing for the first time in almost 4 years...very little goes a long way. Am taking the supplements also but am so very pleased...
Thanks again

[Arrii]

Did the coconut oil make the pain go away ? Because I haven't found anything to help and the pain is really bad.

[Rubyduhhh]

If you have medicinal marijuana in your area any kush of your choice would help with the uncomfortable feeling when walking and sitting. And coconut does help also ease that uncomfortable feeling.

[CKCrit]

Hello, was just doing a quick search for "exact same problems"...Very frustrated, menopausal  female here...LOL.....and I like my husband very much and cannot have sex due to severe pain and tearing. Bleeding from tears is not much fun either....very patient husband.
Thank you for this, am going to try...Hormones made me so sick, helped but too many other side problems and the risks!? Just....NO...so thank you, thank you for this comment. I hope it helps me as it has you.

[insideglimpse]

awesome, now your boyfriend can continue to pound your vagina into a bloody pulp. until it resembles ground beef. thanks for the awesome tip! whew, glad you were able to figure that one out! yay

[insideglimpse]

you're sure it not herpes huh? hmm Dr. Science, guess you missed the day in  sex school when they covered that condoms do not prevent herpes.

[insideglimpse]

tell your bf that if he wants to pound out a meat hole to get a gay man's butt or masturbate. otherwise, your body is not there for his pleasure and your pain.

when men masturbate they choke the **** out of their cocks and stroke the **** out of it too. and this is  how they get off. their penises get desensitized. duh!

when they have sex with their girlfriends they get frustrated because a woman's vaginal muscles cannot grip him as tight as his man hands can. so he pounds the **** out of her. pretends he doesn't know it hurts her, gets off and laughs at how stupid she is. she will blame herself and keep letting him rip up her vagina for years or decades.  

women of course go along with all this because they are idiots.

[insideglimpse]

if it were me, I would stop having sex. seriously what is wrong with you people?