I totally understand what you guys are talking about. I have had this problem for about a year now. My hypothesis is that im always very dry when my BF penetrates me and I think that once it happens the first time, it will keep happening because the skin is very sensitive down there, and the moisture doesnt help at all. I have learend that tje only way I will get only a minimal tear is if we have sex in water, like a pool or the shower. I would really like to find a solution to this because I enjoy sex, but that constant pain makes it about 80 % less enjoyable. I hope someone, somewhere finds a cure, and when you do, please let me know!
my girlfriend just had a tear tonight :( we have both never heard of this and she is very frightened. Can it get infected? I want to calm her down but without knowing anything about it myself i dont know how. Is it normal for it to bleed a lot? How should she feel internally? from what she said it felt "tight" inside her.
I am having the same problem, Ive never tore before ever not even when i had my kids, but my bf and i had sex for the first time last week and i know it has to be a tear, it hurts so bad when i urinate, like stings bad. And when i get up and walk around its irritating also. Im not sure what to do.
me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a while now and wen ever we have sex it is so painful for me.. i have to make her stop and a while ago i noticed that i thougt i had ripped buttt tonight i feell that i have really ripped my vagina! and it hurts like hell
i have a tear on the inner lip of my vagina it happend7 months ago and it is still not healed what do i do?
i has sex last night and it was a bit rough between us, we was going for a while too, then i become a bit sore and we stopped! when i woke up the next morning i went to the toilet and i discovered when i went for a wee it killed me! i looked in the mirror to c y it was hurting so much and i noticed a tear the size of a pea! i had a bit of blood but i am due on ladys month to morrow but later on in the day i had lots of blood in my knickers and i didnt know weather i was a day early or the cut was bleeding! it feels uncomy when i sit, walk and wee! any one had the same??