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if you and your boyfriend use condoms you could be allergic to the latex. me and my boyfriend are both irritated by the spemicidal condoms. my vaginal lips sting to the touch and it hurts to take showers. you may want to check that out.
I used to have that problem with my ex it was because he was larger than the norm or I was smaller than the norm I was swollen for days, showers hurt it was uncomfortable to walk and I them just dreaded having sex with him. I don't have the problem anymore with new person. it's like we weren't sexually compatible
It could be low level thrush? or
Are you sufficiently lubricated before intercourse?