Okay, so I'm 19 and this is my first time to get this sort of thing. There is a very painful, weirdly shaped bump/lump on the right side of my private area, hidden in pubic hair. The first day, I thought it was just a pimple of some sort because it was round and I could vaguely see a white head thing. But the next day it started to feel deformed. It's not round anymore, but rather an odd shape. Sort of like a ragedy oval shape. I have tried researching on it but all I get is in-grown hair or some sort of boil. The closest was the boil. The way it was described kind of sounded like what I have. It is extremely painful and sensitive (I can barely walk). I'm absolutely sure that it's not some kind of STD or anything because I haven't been sexually active for about a year now. I don't really want to go to the doctors so I'm looking for some other solution, but if worse comes to worse then I will go. I'm just worried it could be something else harmful. Can someone please help me out? Thanks in advance.