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could this ba a std?
So I havent been having the best time lately. Last Monday( January 2) I had sex with my new boyfriend. Protection but about 5 mins in the condom broke so it was as if there was no protection. The sex was really rough and that made me feel nothing but pain. I thought it was because the condom we used I was allergic to But during the 4play he bit me a lot so I thought that what it was also. The next morning I noticed that there was something like dried blood on the guy shirts in an area that made me believe it came from me. The next day we tried to have sex again and it didn't work I was too sore to do anything.The 3rd day after the first time we had sex I was still sore but I noticed that my skin was starting to peel. I know this was because I was allergic to the condom.But it was right after I had sex and went to go pee so that I would not get a uti that I notice pain after I peeded. It was on the 3rd day that I looked and I had a lot of white discharge what what looked like a cut right under my vagina opening. I got really upset and scared when the guy I had sex with stopped talking to me and I felt like the only reason he did this is because he felt like I gave him something.It a really new relationship and he walked in it telling me that he was clean but I not sure if I was. I mean I have not had anything happened that made me feel like I had anything but a uti once before but I was raped by someone and never told anyone about it so I never got checked just always had safe sex. I went to the doctor today( it's been 6 days since I had sex) and got tested for everything. I'm really scared that I have an STD and my doctor tested me for herpes because of the cut. Im feel as if I don't have herpes but and I was told that I have a uti and now have to wait two weeks to find out what is wrong with me. I'm starting to really freak out because I'm scared that I the guy I was with had something knew it and gave it to me knowingly because he knew when the condom ripped but kept going.Another thing I'm worried is if I got something from the guy that raped me a few years back. but after reading a few things online i feel like i dont have it because i felt the pain right after the guy couldnt find the hole and was pushing really really hard. My question is from what I said do you guys feel that I have herpes or what could this be.
I'm really sorry about what happened...you must have been scared.
Well, the only thing you can do right now is wait for the test.
I'm guessing that it is an allergic reaction to the condom.
Is the white stuff coming from the cut? If it is, then that cut might be infected. Though I may not be ANYTHING close to a doctor, it might be the reason. Or it could just be discharge. About the cut...did you tell your boyfriend about it? If he was being rough with you, you should have said something. AND HE should have been concerned with you!! AND stopped RIGHT when the condom broke!!! Wash your 'area' frequently, you don't want to get it infected, just in case. Please tell me the results :)
I hope that you do not have an std, and I am really sorry for what happened.
Well, the only thing you can do right now is wait for the test.
I'm guessing that it is an allergic reaction to the condom.
Is the white stuff coming from the cut? If it is, then that cut might be infected. Though I may not be ANYTHING close to a doctor, it might be the reason. Or it could just be discharge. About the cut...did you tell your boyfriend about it? If he was being rough with you, you should have said something. AND HE should have been concerned with you!! AND stopped RIGHT when the condom broke!!! Wash your 'area' frequently, you don't want to get it infected, just in case. Please tell me the results :)
I hope that you do not have an std, and I am really sorry for what happened.
it sounds more like a bacterial vagonitis to me.
where you aware that the condom broke? you have to be careful and protect yourself cause in the end you need to worry about you... there are far worse things than herpes that you can get
anyways i do not think that you have herpes seeing how the cut was there right after rough sex
if you are having burning and pain you can put some plain yogurt on you or fresh clove of garlic.. i know it sounds weird but it will help
if a man is being too rough with you dont be scared to let him know... he should be respecting you and doing it how you like it... you should not be in massive pain from sex...
and when you ask someone if they are clean and have been tested and they say yes... do not trust them... guys lie alot they will say pretty much anything to get you in bed... belive me i have heard it all from guys lol
always use condoms and protect yourself cause you cant take back a lot of the std's
good luck and i hope that your test results come back fine which i am pretty confident that they will
where you aware that the condom broke? you have to be careful and protect yourself cause in the end you need to worry about you... there are far worse things than herpes that you can get
anyways i do not think that you have herpes seeing how the cut was there right after rough sex
if you are having burning and pain you can put some plain yogurt on you or fresh clove of garlic.. i know it sounds weird but it will help
if a man is being too rough with you dont be scared to let him know... he should be respecting you and doing it how you like it... you should not be in massive pain from sex...
and when you ask someone if they are clean and have been tested and they say yes... do not trust them... guys lie alot they will say pretty much anything to get you in bed... belive me i have heard it all from guys lol
always use condoms and protect yourself cause you cant take back a lot of the std's
good luck and i hope that your test results come back fine which i am pretty confident that they will
If u have herpes you will start to get blisters in clustered form that will hurt so itthat will be something that won't go unnoticed. Be patient. Wait and see what the doctor says. You're gonna be alright. Sorry for posted different times. My phone was acting funny :/
It could be an std but all of it could be just an allergic reaction. And plus it being rough isn't going to help. The only way to be sure is to be checked bud.
Again let.me start by saying I'm really sorry about that. I am a guy but I can say we are jerks. What I would do, even though I'm not a girl , is to wait a couple of days to see if any of these problems such as peeling and soreness and the pain when urinating is consistent. If it gets better you might be ok. Although the white discharge does concern me a little bit especially with the cut. But it could be a scar that came from the allergic reation and peeling. Don't freak out yet because if you do it might cause some more.health problems adding more anxiety. But if you can see your doctor alright. Take care of yourself Val. Be blessed
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