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did not bleed during first sex

i never had sex before and now i got married 8 months ago and we just did sex after 8 months,my husband is 29 yrs older than me he is very disappointed that i did not bleed on our first sex coz i told him i never had any boyfriend to have sex,so i am a virgin,why is it i did not bleed what happen!!please help me,i am worried this issue will weaken our marriage!!
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I Didn't Bleed Till The Third Time I Had Sex, Theres Nothing To Be Worried About.
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568659 tn?1256139982
I didn't bleed my first time,.
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It happened to me, i had sex at the age of 25 and was a virgin, didnt bleed and he never trusted me saying i was lying. MEN are ****
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ya ditto i didn't bleed either my 1st time either an thought "wth"..but its normal,your hymen jus got broke amongst some point in your life,even ridin horses,bikes,runnin,lotsa excercisin ect can do it an too tampon use...my bf at the time who is now my hub was like ok suree ur a virgin at first but i explained and he chose to trust me ,why need to lie if he wasnt ur first yuno..
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733930 tn?1286571409
i didnt bleed my first time either like some women do. but not everyone does. its possible that if u use tampons your hymen was already broken
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because your normal. very few women bleed their first time. there are a number of things that can tear the hymen.

if it weakens your marriage and your husband is honestly disappointed....then maybe hes not the right guy for you.
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