hi

[shortandcute]

Hi my name is megan and i have posted up here quite a bit but i was wondering im 10 weeks and 4 days prego and i wanted to know why i dont feel prego and this is my first might i add.. i dont even look prego .. i mean i have a lil pugde but thats it.... i mean i dont know is this normal and when i sneeze it hurts sometimes... and also is it possible to feel fluttering this early cause i swear i do.... but comment please need all the help i can get.
thanks

[peekawho]

No, you are not feeling movement yet.  You'll get bigger soon enough, don't worry!

Have you been to the doctor?  Does the doctor feel that everything is going well?  You sound like most first time mamma's--you will worry until you get that baby in your arms, and then you'll worry about different things!

Good luck to you.  

[Crritter]

Yay, you are almost to the second trimester!  It's totally normal not to feel much or look pregnant yet.  With my son I did not show at all till 27 weeks, not even a little tummy, then one day I exploded.  With this pregnancy I did show a lot faster and at 26 weeks feel pretty big, have had people start asking me when I'm due too.  Anyway, at least you are feeling well, be thankful you aren't one of the unlucky ones still puking at this point, I did till 18 weeks with this baby and well past 20 weeks with my first one.  Try to relax and enjoy, you will probably be feeling strange pulling and tugging, maybe that's what you notice when you sneeze?  I know that there are lots of weird pains that nobody ever tells ya about.  AS for feeling the baby, probably not yet, it's still really early and you are a first time mom, so your muscles are still pretty strong.  I had some flutterings too early on, but it was more gas bubbles I think than anything else.  Give it a few weeks, your little one is still really small and really low in your pelvis still, maybe closer to 4 months you should start to feel the baby and it's really exciting.  That does make it feel more real, that and the u/s.  Hang in there, you'll get the belly and the backaches soon enough...

[Sliga]

don't worry! I can so relate...that's all Im thinking about lately..Im currently 9w 4d and feel absolutely nothing...I don't feel pg at all, Im not showing anything! and have no symptoms at all, sore breast went away! it worries me too! but follow the ladies advice! soon enough you'll show and have all these awful symptoms lol..I think Im the second one to ask? have you gone to the doctor yet? a visit there and a doctor telling you everything seems to be going well should put your mind at ease! I have my first app. next month so I just wait impatiently for that time!
don't worry and congrats! soon enough you'll see ;)

[pertykitty]

did you have your ultrasound? i remember your last question you said you were having one? megan i also suggested and others did too on getting some books on pregnancy or see if you can take a class to learn more. please respond back, its upsetting to not hear from you after your questions. im sure you are doing just fine. there is more to come every week with pregnancy.

[Crritter]

I agree with the above post.  Just remember while you are reading up on pregnancy that you read up on what to do with baby after they arrive.  So many women focus on the pregnancy the whole time and once the little arrives, they realize what they forgot to read.  I did catch up some right before I had my son.  I was so glad I did grab some books, my son was colicky and some of the tips were a lifesaver.  Also, don't overload on the pregnancy books or you can drive yourself crazy worrying about the problems, but get a few ggod books, they are great for reference and let you know what's going on at certain stages.  Maybe spend some time getting ready for baby, or getting things ready at work for when you will need to leave, I know that has helped me to relax some and take my mind off of worrying so much.