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i don't know if i can get pregnant

When i was little from 8 to 13 i was molested by my stepdad, and i've tried to get pregnant several times, and its never happened, does it have anything to do with being molested or am i just messed up? I'd really like to have kids if not now, some day...but i'm not sure i can actually get pregnant i don't see why i haven't already i've tried everything. Whats wrong with me?
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I dont think I'm able to have kids, I have been trying for about 2 years now and still have nothing. When I was a child, sad to say, I was not taking care of my body like I should have been. I was having unprotected sex and wound up with Chlamydia. I honestly dont know how long I had it before I went to the doctor and was diagnosed and treated. I mean I was only having sex with one guy and after him I was not doig it for a looooong time. I read something that stated untreated STD's can cause scar tissue and infertility. Could my irresponsible behavior have something to do with my problem? If so, how will I know for sure? I really want a family with my boyfriend!
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i dont think thats tru. why how young are you
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i've been told by family that because i have such bad cramps when im on my period that it means i wont be able to get pregnate.Is this true or a myth?i really want a baby soon while im young and ready.
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This blog is too old to care about LOL! I guess this is the most feedback it's ever got LOL!
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B's Mommy Congrats on all of ur accomplishments. There is no perfect way to live life, but it is very real of you to recognize how much easier things could of been. However you are blesses and sound as if you remain on track & focused with your goals in life. AND your man sounds great!

     Now, to brandnew;  Hello wake up! What ever personal crisis u have is ur own, & u need some help also if u believe that forgiving is forgetting... But you sound pretty egocentric & judgemental towards me. Get off you high horse because your advise is wack! Read between the lines, she has  bigger issues in life & getting prego is noway the solution. She needs a foundation & to seek help were someone will actually listen, believe, & help her. Did u overlook that her mom is in denial. Compensating as a good mommy is pretty hard if u have no financial, physical, or moral support. This will create a bigger problem & with her track record she has yet to settle with just one. But why not, she is only 19 &needs to grow.
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TO rawme: I personally dont think you have the right to judge someone's decision based upon their age and if she wants to forgive her stepdad then she has the right to do it because I'd rather forgive someone than to have that on my mind...

Brandnew: I wish you the best with what the doctor says...im not saying that its fine to have a child at a young age but as I read your blog you was talking about how your worried about how its affecting you later in the future and everyone else is by passing that and thinking that your talkin about now..just be wise in all your decisions....                                                                                                                    The Princess                  
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