can you get pregnant by fingering?

[Ginaaa]

this is going to sound really stupid, but im 16, and 5 days ago i did stuff with my boyfriend, when he ejaculated he got it on his hand but wiped it off, then half hour later he fingered me then we had sex with a condom. i know sperm cant last outside the body longer then 2 minuites but im really really scared i might be pregnant, cant stop worrying about it, my period isn't for another 2 weeks but im just scared i might be pregnant. is there any chance i could be???
please write back as soon as possible.

[meaghank]

Many teenage girls take birth control to simply regulate their periods and help with acne. That's a reason to give your mom to get on it without telling her that you're having sex, which can be a touchy subject.

[Ashelen]

I agree with okasia...but it wasn't me! I wasn't the original poster, LOL.

[okasia]

Hi and yes you did a dumb thing .....but i cant say much me and my husband have been together since we were 13-14 and we got married at 18-19 and have been married for 5 years. Anyways go to your dr and when you get into there office you state (I am invoking my right to privicey and everything i talk to you about today is to remain confifental, that way if they say anthing to your parents they would be breaking that legal agreement that they are require to uphold or be sued) I did and my very very strict partents NEVER found out. And because I did that we never got pregnant till we wanted to. Also i recamend going to a free clinic to get the percripion or even better get the injection...that way no evidence for parents to find! ...i used NOVA RING ........worked great for 5 years then took it out so we could try to get pregnant then had a baby boy....went on a copper IUD for 2 1/2 years took it out and are now preggers again...............please just be careful!!!

[Ginaaa]

thanks for the advice, its calmed me down a bit, still worried a bit but i dont think i am pregnant, very low chances :) but i cant talk to my mum, i have really strict parents, she would kill me :/ i could ask her that, but she would get suspicious, she knows everything :( i dont do it often, but thanks for the advice, i've only recently turned 16 so maybe later on i will go on the pill and talk to my mum about it :)

[Ashelen]

In this case, it's unlikely that you are pregnant, but you need to see if you can get on the pill to avoid scares like this. If you take the pill and use a condom together you shouldn't have much to worry about. Can you talk to your mom or go to your local clinic for birth control? If your mom doesn't know you're sexually active and you don't feel comfortable telling her, you can do what I did: Tell your mom that your period pains are severe and that you had a friend who was put on birth control to help regulate her periods and make them easier, and you want to talk to your gynecologist about it. My mom took me in and I was put on the birth control pill right away....Unfortunately even with the pill and condoms used together there is always a slim chance of pregnancy, and you're always taking a small risk. Good luck, I wouldn't worry too much this time.