I have recently started a new relationship after two years of abstinence (no partner!).
I have no problem getting aroused with my new partner or reaching orgasm. But, I have noticed that when I have a clitoral orgasm there is a sharp very localised pain on the right hand side of my lower abdomen - just out from the pubic area (if that area were a viewed as a triangle then the pain is about 2-4 cm out from the upper right hand corner.
I have also noticed that there is a heavy, dull ache when i am aroused but not with my partner.
I did not experience this in my previous relationships and I am worried that something has changed. I am in my early 40s.
Any advice will be gratefully recieved. Thanks.