U need to see de obgyn, painful sex cld be from certain conditions like pcos, pid or other stuffs, see ur dr.kk hope he's using protection though
He's not being considerate. How would he like to be penetrated when it hurts?
This is what I personally think...., if he is ignoring you and you feel that he is raping you, then he is NOT a great lover. He's not a great anything. I would have a real, serious talk with him *before* you start to get intimate, before you even think about having sex. He needs to listen to you and respect what you feel. You need to be respected and listened to for sex to be enjoyable. It probably won't feel or be good if he doesn't listen to your needs as well.