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regaining virginity

How do i regain my virginity ? I had sex only once & was bleeding. Not sure whether i am virgin. I think i am not. I am 21 year old & we are not sure our relationship mite go upto marriage. Anyways my marriage is after 4 years. So plz do tell how do i regain my virginity ?? Wat if my future husband get to know am not virgin. Am scared. Plz plz help me..
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There are cultural situations in which a woman is expected to be a virgin when they marry.  It's hard for Westerners to understand but I've read a good deal about this.  I understand why many are asking the question but being a virgin is more than breaking one's hymen.  It's having sex for the first time.  Once you've done that----  you can not do that again in terms of losing your virginity.  but I don't think you need to tell a man everything in this regard . . .   good luck
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Yes virginity is a fake social construct I completely agree. Any man who would break up with you for not being a virgin is no man and he is not worth your time.
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Actually virginity is a social construct.
You can get a hymenoplasty to have your hymen reconstructed, if that's what you want. But it might be painful to have sex after one, because essentially you'd be breaking the skin that is scarred and altered from surgery.
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How about hymenoplasty ?? Does it help. ?? I hv just heard about it. Not hvng much ideas.  
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How about hymenoplasty ?? Does it help. ?? I hv just heard about it. Not hvng much ideas.  
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Once you've had sex you are no longer a virgin and never will be again.
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It won't grow back, if that's what you're wondering. There's nothing wrong with not being a virgin, either. You're future husband should love each and every part of you, even the parts that aren't there (your virginity).
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Any chance of regaining hymen ??
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If you bled after your fist time your hymen probably broke, which technically means you're not a virgin anymore. However, it has been proven that not all women have a hymen so unless you've had sex multiple times over time it would be hard to tell whether you're a virgin or not. You should be honest about it with your couple though, you'd avoid problems, and if he truly loves you he will accept you as you are!
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