My male friend and I have been talking for 10 months now and his response to my questions like when are we going to this place or when are we going to be official or even when can i meet some of your people is always one day, just be patient. He hardly calls and now every since i told him i had to get meds for trich, i cant hardly reach him. He told me the other day im not trying to ignore you i just got to get my job situation and apartment straightened out, but he is doing something because we pretty much dont talk at all now. I dont know if he thinks i gave him this or what because i just went to the doctor this past summer and i was ok in all aspects but when i started to feel funny i went back and that was the result. I think i should just forget about him and leave that whole situation alone, but another part of me says be patient with him and stay, but we are not committed in no kind of way so i think i will get all that out of my head and think about me. I have enough on my plate, im in grad school and i am about to go into my career i dont need the extra stress.