urgent!! undecided about my pregnancy

[vikitoms]

hello everyone
i am a mum of a 6 yr old child,i have raised my child alone with the support of my family(her farther was brain damaged ) wen she was 1.so for obvious reasons i was a single mother against my will.
6yrs on i am 30 now and have always longed for the perfect family and more children.however this has not happened and i found myself settling for occassional buddies.not clever i no.ther was one i was keen on but i found out after a few months of mucking about together that he has a live in gf.i stupidily carried on misbehaving with him and both of us wer completely irrisponsible ( no protection) as a result i am now 8 weeks pregnant,i have complete mixed feelings about carrying on ....one minute ill be looking at baby furniture the next ill b looking into abortion..he has told me he doesnt want to b apart of its life as he has 5 children already.he and his gf are always arguing as she wants a kid and he doesnt.i really dont no wether i can face the emotional turmoil aagin i mean 1st time round was a complete tragedy bit this time was complete stupidity. i dont no wether i am strong anoth to give this child the life it shud have.mum and a dad. please help me im really stressing

[moonshinenight]

You really need to speak to someone about your options, If your having doubts one minute and looking at baby furniture the next then don't rush into an abortion. Weigh up the pros and cons to each side and above all put yourself and your 6 year old first. Look at your options if you decide to keep this baby but also be prepared for how you'd feel if you went through with an abortion you weren't sure about, it is not always the easy way out. Hope this helps, good luck!

[sweetpea03]

have you ever thought about adoption?? I think that'd be a good way to go if you can't handle having the baby. I'm adopted myself and I thank my birth mom every day of my life for the sacrifice she gave.