weird question but.. how do u know when you orgasming?

[bellababy]

ok i know that i just asked a question but this is anothing one that is on my mind.. how do u know when you are really having an orgasm? i do masturbate and i feel like a good sensation but is that an orgasm or is it something else. can someone please help me and answer that.

i have had sex before and when it was starting to feel really good id start to moan harder and breath harder and louder. is that part of an orgasm or please help me with that. just want to make sure that im not faking it.

thanks again.

please help me with this one more.

[kristiemichelle]

how old are you?  as you get older you will definatley know when you have one.  there are several kinds, all of which are good and very different.  If it feels good enough to moan louder and breath heavier, its one and your not faking it.....good luck, but i think your fine.

[nadt24]

o you'll know!! trust me!

[mslkpage]

A similar question came up a few weeks ago.

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/WomensHealth/messages/5637.html

[AnnieBrooke]

You sound like you are getting close, at least.  When you orgasm, the vagina goes through a series of contractions.  Some women say it feels like wave after wave or warm pleasure, and many laugh and agree with a comparison to sneezing.  There is a build-up like the tension before you sneeze, and then the release with the sneeze (or the contraction).  The only thing is that a sneeze is once, and the vagina will contract several times in a row.  On a really good one, the sensation will even travel partway down your legs.  Hope this helps!  Annie

[ne'chee]

Are you using a vibrator? This will help you achieve definite strong orgasms so you'll know how you respond, and can carry that into other sexual experience. Here's a good vibrator along with some instruction on use to orgasm. Since it's a vibrator type not only used for orgasm, you might feel less uncomfortable buying it than some other type (if that's of concern).

www(dot)bettydodson(dot)com/vibhowtouse.htm

The clitoris is the origin of orgasm in women. Of course, orgasm is perceived in many areas including areas outside of the genitals. But the source of the orgasm is the clitoris in the female, as it is the penis in the male.