My wife masturbates a lot and i even let her have sex with other men since I have lost sex drive and not interested anymore but i still love her. She does a lot of anal masturbation on her own over the past few years and i notice her toys are getting bigger and bigger. Yesterday i saw her taking a shower and her anus. I had not directly seen her anus in a year, but it looked so worn out.
She is very fair skinned but her anus was now a brownish gape and slightly protruding. Is she ruining herself and how do i stop her?