I had phimosis my whole life up until 18 years old. At that age I had my first surgery (because the phimosis was severe enough to warrent a surgery), and a year later I had to undergo a second surgery because of a little tear in stitches that resulted in a piece of "meat" being painfuly exposed. Now four years after second surgery my penis glans is very sensitive and the scar area is still painful. I can masturbate by touching other parts of my penis, but when I tried to have sex for the first time, it ended in embarasment. I couldn't get an erection because of the pain, stress and weird sensation. The girl even gave up on me. How could I improve the situation with hypersensitivity, pain and related erectile dysfunction without undergoing another surgery?