He is a **** get out before the other abuse starts!!!Run that is not a loving husband.
How old are both of you? Did he have previous relationships?
Best of luck!
Sorry, it occurred to me that you meant to type "silly quirk".
Well, how about you tell your husband's mother to use the bathroom somewhere outside her own house for a week and then decide how "silly" this quirk is.
And I have to say, if my fiance said I'm not allowed to do his laundry when we got married, I'd have SERIOUS reservations about that man. Sweety, you've married a man who is mentally ill. And somehow, you missed it for the year you were dating.
IrmaJean, it's time to leave. Before you get too entrenched. I strongly sense you won't do that, and you're just trying to make this work out, despite this man's disabling beliefs.
I don't now what a "dilly quirk" is, that his mom states he has. His mom is completely enabling him, and he's a loser of a husband.
But again, I strongly sense you won't take the advise you're given here, and leave his crazy guy. God only knows how he will react when you are pregnant and have those issues to deal with.
Sometimes someone says something so bizarre you will never forget it. I honestly don't think I'll ever forget this post, IrmaJean.
It's time to cut your losses and file for divorce or annulment. When people ask "what happened - why are you divorcing?" and you say he told me I couldn't ever use our bathrooms in our house, no one - NO ONE - will blame you for getting out.
God knows what other very, very bizarre requests this man will make.