My boyfriend of 4 yrs. now is VERY addicted to Vicoden, or any kind of pain pills up to 25 or 30 a day sometimes, and then also lots of Cocane all day too. Probably about a gram or two a day. Oh and not to mention all the alcohol consumtion. I have finally put my foot down and said that its me or his drugs. I just cant handel all of the mood swings, trips to the dealers all the time, and lies, etc... He has agreed to take at home drug tests for me at any time I say. I know that one can be testd for Cocane, but can you be tested for Pain medicines? What can I do? I want him to go to rehab, but he refuses to do so, and says that this should be sufficient enough for me. He is 40 yrs old and not the most healthy person. I am very woriedd for him, and I refuse to marry him untill he can prove to me that he is capable of being a good husband, and then hopefully some day a good faher. I guess the last of this is just me kinda venting to who ever reads this. If anyone has any advice for me on A) How to handle this/him, Maybe someone has or is going through the same kinda thing and B) How can I test for Painkillers at home?
Thank you so much
Stephneia